On the thirteenth day of copying the book, today Long Yingtai’s book " Dear Andre " has been read. I like the way of communication between mother and son, and I like the way of replying to Andre . I don’t know why I look forward to Andre’s letter the more I read it. Many of Long Yingtai’s expressions feel that it is too exaggerated.
There are two favorite sentences in the book that I have a deep memory. The first sentence: My rationality has lost to my emotions after all. And I entered my memory of this sentence: I hope my rationality will always overcome my emotions.
I am a very sensitive person. Many times, when I hear something unfair or something strange or something strange, I will immediately write my emotions on my face. Only after the matter is over did I realize that I should look at the problem rationally and solve the problem rationally. Instead of talking and doing things with emotion.
The older I get, the more I feel in the customer service mentality. A friend who studies psychology said that I have a serious mental cleanliness obsession. When I see the dirty emotional environment, I block myself, and then my emotions are written on my face. I gradually realized that this statement really makes sense. I am slowly changing this obsession with cleanliness, learning to solve the problem with a calm mind, and slowly changing, but occasionally I can't help it. Seeing this sentence also talked about my pain point, and I hope I can change slowly. Reason has always been there, and emotions can always be influenced by my rationality.
The second sentence that leaves a deep memory: "I also want you to study hard, not because I want you to compete with others for success, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future. Choose work that makes sense and time, rather than being forced to make a living. ——Long Yingtai》
This sentence really expresses the voice of many of us. I also hope that I can have such a choice, so after four years of struggle, I finally have such a right. Of course, the four years here are not four years of college, but four years after graduating from college to cross industry.
Really, I don’t want my youth and my time to be wasted in a fixed model and I don’t like. I just hope that I can do the job I like, rather than to satisfy my parents' vanity and do the so-called stable and iron job, and I can see the end of the job at a glance. I used four years of youth to convince my parents and spent four years looking for the answer.
Sometimes it is worth wasting some youth and time. Now I just hope my future journey will be smoother and smoother.
