-01-
Almost everyone has had such experiences.
read a good article and wanted to share it with others, but it was difficult to resonate with others;
encountered a very happy thing, and wanted to find someone to celebrate, but no one could feel your happiness;
encountered troubles and wanted to find someone to talk to, but searched through the list of friends and couldn't find a suitable person, so open the dialog box;
...
has many friends, but they can't beat a close friend.
There are many people around you who care about you, but no one can let you let go of your inner worries and communicate with them unscrupulously.
Until one day, a person like this appeared beside you:
You see a cloud floating in the sky, and you think of his smiling face; when you see a little wild cat on the roadside, you can't help but whisper with him; when you open the refrigerator, you will find that at some point, he has helped you turn the original "empty" into "full"...
This person makes you feel at ease, gives you warmth, makes you full of enthusiasm for life, and makes you feel that the waiting you used to have not been disappointed.
-02-
What I feel about sometimes seems the most unreliable, but the most straightforward.
" Ode to Joy ", from the moment the singularity appears, we have a feeling in front of the screen that he and Andy cannot go to the end.
Sure enough, in the following plot, he suspected her, and even stimulated her after knowing her life experience.
Finally, they broke up as the audience wished.
can be seen, "feeling" is really a kind of metaphysics.
After all, there is no fool in life. Once there is a feeling of being untrustworthy, sometimes cold and sometimes hot, and especially "tired", most of these two people just don't fall in love with them.
The feeling of deep love should be deeply rooted in people's hearts.
Feeling "he firmly chosen"
When you are young, you always think that being falls in love with someone must be blushing and heartbeat, like a little deer in your arms, but when you are really together, you realize that these are just a kind of heartbeat.
The real love should be that no matter where you go, there is someone sticking to you; whatever you do, he will want to accompany you; when you see the beautiful moonlight, you will miss him in your heart; whenever you encounter, he will give you a firmness.
people are afraid of loneliness and even more afraid of being let down.
Especially those who have suffered from love will always wrap their hearts tightly, fearing that they will be hurt again and live like a lone hero.
But after meeting this person, from then on, he will share your honor and disgrace with you; he will share your joy and anger with you; he will be accustomed to all your strengths and weaknesses... The love he gives you is like letting you take out your transformed self and be reborn.
movie " Later Us ", the girl is precocious, the boy is ignorant, and the girl makes up her mind to accompany him to endure hardships. As long as she can be with him, she can do anything.
But later, she left him.
only because she never found the feeling of being "resolutely chosen" in him, even the morning she left, the boy was still at a loss.
Reality and love seem to be inseparable, but there are so many hidden hidden in it because of "uncertainty", so I missed it for a moment and lost it for a lifetime.
From the beginning to the end of the silent departure, everything is because they themselves feel that it is impossible to be together with each other in their hearts.
How can you reach the end if you have this feeling?
Feeling life has become "easy and peaceful"
I once saw a story.
A man has three girlfriends in succession.
The first one was first love, dancing lightly, young and frivolous, and love passionately; the second one accompanied him through the most confused time, making him more mature; the third girl was very calm and gentle, they quietly accompanied each other, hugged each other and fell asleep silently, and the girl finally became his wife.
is visible, loves to the end, and it feels relaxed and peaceful.
does not have the enthusiasm of "the turbulence of the wind and clouds", only simple companionship in ordinary life, flowing forever.
When a person loves you deeply, it is not about you and me, but about making a pot of soup, slowly wafting out the fragrance. When two people are together, there is no anxiety or anxiety, only dependence and warmth.
Really fall in love is not to use marriage to bind each other, but to both hope that each other will become better people in life.
The quality of love is also measured here.
is like that sentence:
When you are deeply in love with someone, you will not feel worried about gains and losses, will not always be suspicious, and will not always distrust, but this relationship makes you feel worth showing off and relying on.
Feeling the feeling of "warmth, wanting to rely on"
In life, there are always men saying to women, "You must be sensible". The so-called sensibility means taking care of the family more, taking care of him more, and pushing all housework on women, and just wanting to be an old man;
There are always women saying to men, "I rely on you in my life", the so-called "dead" means that I am as beautiful as a flower, you are responsible for making money to support your family, and you just reach out to "want" and finally I am disliked. Love like
Most of the time it is easy to cause discord, making people want to escape.
The feeling of being truly deeply loved is actually that two people need to work together, men give women a favor, and women give men a warmth.
In this way, only in the eyes of two people, can they love each other no matter what the other person becomes.
There is a friend around her. When she was young, she was injured for many years because of a betrayal. She was over thirty years old and was still alone. She was very good. Even the aunt who had a pancake at the door of their unit wanted to introduce her to her.
Until, she met her current husband.
She said: I have been on blind dates before, but only when I was with him, I felt very quiet inside. I remember one time, I had a fever and mentioned to him when I was calling. He was still out of town at that time, and hurriedly drove back to see me at night. The moment I saw him, I felt: It’s him.
Perhaps when people are sick, they will feel very fragile and want to find a place to rely on to get some warmth, but at this time, it is actually the time when the relationship between men and women is the most tested.
The emergence of love is actually because after several turmoils, there is a warm pillow and a warm quilt between each other. Both of them yearn to be the ones that each other wants to rely on the most.
Even if the other party is a pig teammate, he will never leave him and warm him at any time.
Whether it is a couple or a lover, what can make people go to safely is actually in the fireworks of the world, where two people depend on each other for their lives.
-03-
love, not make do with it.
If there is no love between each other and wants to live a lifetime, it will be too difficult in this impetuous society in modern times.
If people have no feelings, there is no difference between them and animals.
"Love" is the happiness given to us by God.
So, when you are deeply loved by someone, this sense of happiness rises from the bottom of your heart. It is not fabricated or false, but it only makes you feel a beauty and peace of mind in your daily life.
Fate has arrived, just one sentence: it’s him.
The person you meet is not because of his conditions or his appearance, which makes you moved, but because he is "good" to you from the bottom of his heart, which makes you feel that you have met a good person in this life.
There will be many "heart-to-heart" in life, but this time you feel "being deeply loved by him".
So, at this time you must remember to follow your heart, obey your inner feelings, grab him, and don’t hurt his heart.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
