Bai Yang once said: "For the sake of the continuation of love and the happiness of marriage, the wife must please her husband, and the husband must also please her. As for how to please it, it is a high-level art." The relationship between men and women is romantic and complex. I

Bai Yang once said: "For the sake of the continuation of love and the happiness of marriage, the wife must please the husband, and the husband must also please the wife. As for how to please it, it is a high-level art."

The relationship between men and women is romantic and complex. In the world of love, we can always see all kinds of love tricks. It seems that stupid women will always become victims of gender relations, while smart women can enjoy their benefits.

Because in a gender relationship, smart women not only know how to please men, but also keep "making demands" to make men love her more and more.

Reject what you don’t like

Women and men are two completely different biological individuals. If you stand at the level of feeling, women are more sensitive than men and are more likely to be emotional.

Emotion is the initiator of the conflict between the two genders. From a psychological perspective, many times, women develop emotions about something, but men seem indifferent, because women's feelings are stronger than men at this moment, and men often realize it later.

Some women always think that men can be perceived by their emotions, but the facts are exactly the opposite.

To give a simple example, after a woman got married, she gave up her job and took care of her children at home for the sake of stability of the entire family and for the sake of maintaining the relationship between the two.

Deep down in her heart, she likes her hard-won job. On the other hand, her real idea is to work hard with men to fight for her career, and the two can negotiate some things within the family together.

But she didn't really say that, nor did she do it according to her own ideas, but just catered to men. So the longer the time, the stronger her emotionality will be, and once what the man did was in contrast to what she thought, it would arouse her strong emotional reaction.

So instead of being involved and not being pleased, it is better to refuse something we don’t want to do from the beginning. Maybe in most relationships we do need to pay, but it does not mean we have to sacrifice.

For women, you must learn to reject the party, stick to your principles, and stick to what you like, which can reduce many emotional conflicts between the two parties. On the one hand, you will get the other party's respect, and on the other hand, your relationship will be more harmonious.

boldly express your needs

Good relationship must require mutual satisfaction between both parties. This satisfaction is at multiple levels, perhaps material, emotion, or other.

If you satisfy the other party unilaterally, then the one-way giver will feel tired after a long time, and the other party will naturally enjoy all this.

A smart woman will not just be a victim in the relationship, but will know how to express her needs boldly. She will take the initiative to express her thoughts and tell the other party what she needs.

The most taboo thing in gender relationships is guessing. A woman’s favorite catchphrase is, I thought you understand.

Most men feel very speechless because of this. They don’t like to guess women’s thoughts, but want women to intuitively tell them what their needs are.

Most men are eager to satisfy women, because on the one hand, they will gain a kind of spiritual satisfaction in the process of satisfying the other person, and on the other hand, they will also let them discover their own value.

As we mentioned, the sunken effect, the more he puts in this woman, the more time, energy and emotions he spends on this woman, the more he will be reluctant to leave this woman.

Therefore, women must express their true thoughts, what they really like, and what they hate, so in the process of expressing their needs, they will be valued by men and emotionally satisfied.

stick to your own persistence

A survey found that most men say likes are not those beautiful young women in a narrow sense, they appreciate those who have ideas and sense of responsibility and can be independent.

A smart woman will stick to what she thinks, and may always make various demands. In the eyes of men, such women are truly soulful and valuable.

A good relationship must be mutual appreciation for each other and can jointly realize their life goals and values. This step-by-step emotion can be sublimated, which will aggravate the emotions between two people and make men pamper the woman more.

Therefore, no matter what happens, we must learn to stick to what we want to stick to, not be controlled by the other person's ideas, and live freely.

As Miyazaki said: "Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When the separation comes, what you lose is not someone, but the pillar of your spirit. No matter when and where, you must learn to walk independently, it will make you walk more calmly."

A smart woman has her own ideas, she will boldly make demands with men, and men will love her more because of this.

Reference materials: "Love Psychology", "Psychology"