We all hope that marriage life can be happy, but the basis of happiness must be based on loyalty to marriage. A marriage without loyalty will only be a mess in the end. As long as one of the couple cheats, it will cause irreparable harm to the marriage, because cheating can never be done once.
cheating actually happens in many age groups. Not only young people, but also for some people with rich experience, it is inevitable that they will fall into the customs. So, why does cheat for people over 50 years old? The answers of the three women: nothing more than these three points
Ms. Jin, 50 years old
I can't get the life I want, so I can only find another way. I don't have much time to enjoy my life. I have been married for 25 years. In fact, in my era, when I got married, it was already very late. The reason was nothing. I was arrogant and wanted to find a good one, which ended up being unmarried. In desperation, I could only listen to my parents' opinions and marry my current husband.
This has been living together for more than 20 years. Although life is getting better day by day, it is far from what I expected. My husband has no ability, so he can take care of family food and clothing. As a result, I have to work hard for thrift and family life, and I have to worry about my children's lives. I have had enough of this kind of life and have worked hard for the rest of my life. I also want to relax and experience the joy of life, so I cheated. After all, I am so old that I am afraid I will have no chance if I don't enjoy it.
Ms. Wang, 52 years old
Tired of life now and long for a new tomorrow
0 After thirty years of marriage, looking back, it seems that it is a busy life trivial matter. Over the past thirty years, we have worked hard to raise our children to grow up, saving money for their food, clothing, housing, transportation, and growing up. We have no time or energy to live for ourselves. When the children grow up, we work hard for their family and career. At this time, there are elderly parents who need to take care of them, and they are busy with trivial matters every day, and I am really tired of it.
I cheated because I longed for a new life, a life where I could be free and truly live for myself. In front of him, I can be my true self, and I don’t have to work hard for the trivial matters of life. Everything I do is to please myself and let myself feel happiness.
Ms. Zhang, 55 years old
Finally waited until my children were adults, I didn't have to put it in order anymore
0 got married for thirty-two years. I have been enduring it for the years, and now I am finally relieved.
My husband is a veritable drunkard. He is lazy and knows that he is drunk and dreams with his friends. Then why should I marry him? It was because he was pregnant with his child at that time.
In our era, it was shameful to get pregnant before marriage. I had no choice but to marry him. In fact, I thought that he might restrain himself when he got married, but the facts proved that I was wrong. I have been dedicating to my family for so many years. Now that my children have grown up, I support me in bravely taking the step of divorce. After cheating once a few years ago, I met my current wife. He has no children and is very considerate to me. I truly feel the feeling of a woman being loved.
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In fact, for women over 50 years old, they have already seen life very clearly and have lived very clearly until what they want next, but they also hope that they are responsible for their marriage, can divorce, and do not have extramarital affairs; they also hope that men can change their bad habits and truly cherish their wives. After all, divorce after being over 50 years old, it is not a good thing to spread. What do you think?
