How shameless can a man cheat on him? After cheating, let the wives consider their children and tolerate their extramarital affair.
Feeling that your extramarital affair will not affect your marriage, so your wives should not have a fierce reaction.
Men who cheat are selfish, they are self-centered, and
feel that as long as they are happy, their wives and children are not worth mentioning.
Faced with men's thoughts, instead of arguing with them about right or wrong, it is better to resolve the extramarital affair and make everything they want fail.
This extramarital affair case was a case that the Blue Party had successfully resolved before.
The original wife Ms. Zhou and her husband have been married for seventeen years. There is a child who just went to high school.
Because her home is far away from the school, Ms. Zhou rented a house nearby to accompany her to study.
She works as an accountant in a factory. She doesn’t have much work and doesn’t need to sit on the job all the time. She has enough time to take care of her children.
Her husband used to drive a truck, but later because of his physical condition, he started to rent it out after a while.
also takes care of his health and will not go out early or come back late, and even go home for lunch and have a nap.
She originally thought her husband would accompany her to study with her, but her husband said that the house she rented was relatively small, and
only had one bedroom and one living room. It was a bit noisy for three people to live in, which would disturb the child’s study.
So her husband would come over to have lunch at noon and drive home to sleep after dinner.
Although Ms. Zhou and her husband met on blind dates, they have been in good relationship for so many years.
So even though she started to separate, she did not have any doubts about her husband.
I never thought that her husband would cheat. The mistress was a cashier in the supermarket near them.
Ms. Zhou also knows her mistresses, and she lives in their community and often goes to supermarkets.
The mistress’s husband has been abroad all year round. He has not returned home in recent years due to the epidemic. The mistress lives with his children and his mistress’s mother.
If Ms. Zhou had never separated from the cheating man, she might not have had this extramarital affair.
It is obvious that the mistress knew that Ms. Zhou was not at home, so she had the meaning of this.
Most men cannot refuse women's initiative, and the mistress is very young and beautiful.
The reason why Ms. Zhou discovered that one day she went home to get things and didn't tell her husband in advance, and she directly ran into the cheating man and mistress having an affair at her house.
Ms. Zhou wanted to play a mistress, but the cheating man kept stopping her, and after the mistress ran away.
The cheating man knelt down and begged for mercy with Ms. Zhou, and promised not to break up with the mistress and would not continue.
After a while, Ms. Zhou chose to forgive her because of her child and her many years of relationship.
So not long after, I found out that the cheating man and the mistress were in contact.
The cheating man and Ms. Zhou said that she and the mistress would not affect their husband-wife relationship and family.
The mistress also has a husband and a child. The mistress is abroad and gives money to the mistress.
The mistress is also reluctant to leave her husband, so the two of them only cheat and do not divorce.
Let Ms. Zhou think about her child and not make things worse for the sake of her child.
When Ms. Zhou came to find Lan Fang, she said that she had never thought that her husband would be so shameless.
She said that she really didn't want to divorce for the sake of her child, but she was unwilling to let her husband and mistress go.
So how should Ms. Zhou solve this case?
Lan Fang told Ms. Zhou that she could catch one point, that is, the mistress would not want to divorce.
Compared to cheating men, the mistress’s husband obviously makes more money, and he also gives it to the mistress.
The mistress cannot divorce her husband for the sake of a cheating man, and the mistress will be afraid of a cheating man and keep pestering her.
Based on this point, the advice Lan Fang gave to Ms. Zhou is to have a divorce attitude.
You may not really divorce a cheating man, but you will have to make a fuss until the cheating man thinks you really plan to divorce.
collects evidence, consults lawyers, discusses divorce conditions with cheating men, etc.
Ms. Zhou wants to do it, to make the cheating man believe that Ms. Zhou wants to divorce, and to let the mistress know that Ms. Zhou wants to divorce.
What kind of attitude would a man know that a cheating man will become a single mistress?
If a cheating man divorces, he will continue to be the third party to the mistress and will not force the mistress to divorce.
The mistress will never react, maybe she will be happy that the man cheated on her will be unrestrained, and it will be more convenient for her to cheat.
But if the cheating man's marriage is broken, his or her psychological imbalance and he also wants to divorce his or her mistress.
The mistress will start to have conflicts with the cheating man. After all, the cheating man is not as good as the mistress’ husband.
The two people didn’t have any true feelings, so the mistress naturally cared more about interests.
So Ms. Zhou is having a divorce, and the cheating man feels that there is no hope of regaining his mistake, so she starts to treat the mistress as her next home.
will be more like forcing the mistress to divorce, and the mistress is unwilling to divorce, so the two will naturally have conflicts.
All feelings, whether in the love stage, marriage stage, or extramarital affair,
cannot withstand constant conflicts, and constant quarrels will consume the relationship between two people.
The mistress has no relationship with the cheating man, and the mistress only wants to stay away from the cheating man at this time.
Once the relationship between the man and the mistress is unable to continue, Ms. Zhou has not divorced yet.
A cheating man will immediately turn around and find a way to keep his marriage. After all, this is his only way out.
Ms. Zhou, according to the suggestion, gave the cheating man step by step to force the mistress to divorce.
Wait until the mistress said she was going to break up, the cheating man was entangled, and the conflict between the mistress and the cheating man rose to the peak.
The mistress scolded the man who cheated on her and didn't look like a man. The man cheated on her and scolded the mistress to harm him.
The two of them reached the point of rebellion, and the mistress even tried to avoid cheating on the man.
decisively chose to sell the house and move, and changed jobs. The cheating man could only turn around and ask Ms. Zhou.
Blue party told Ms. Zhou not to easily forgive the cheating man and continue to make a divorce.
Let the cheating man pay the price to save him. The higher the price, the more he will cherish the marriage he finally saved.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that the extramarital affairs of most married men and women are not real feelings.
Two people take their own needs and work on their own, once their interests are threatened.
Whether it is a cheating man or a mistress, he will only tear the other party with his hands for his own benefit.
And what wives have to do is to seize the contradictions, create conflicts of interest, and internally disintegrate extramarital affairs.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
