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Some readers have private messages saying that you don’t know what you know and if you meet a scumbag, you will write an article to attack the men all over the world! I...hat is too big, I can't stand it! Old fans who are familiar with Wanwan know that Wanwan initially wrote about his own emotional experiences, but later they met some sisters who had the same experience and began to pay attention to the issue of extramarital affair, about the harm of extramarital affair to women.
Wanwan’s article is the topic. I hope that those married men can keep the bottom line, cherish marriage, cherish the woman who gave birth to children for him and took care of the family. If you don’t love, say it openly, everyone can get together and leave. Don’t hurt a woman who is sincere to you in such a way as extramarital affair.
Because Wanwan is a woman, because Wanwan has experienced the same harm, and even how much harm an extramarital affair is to a married woman and how serious the sequelae are, Wanwan chooses to happen to this group of women. Of course, Wanwan has also written about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the cheating of women. But let’s be honest, as a female author, the proportion of male readers who come to Wanwan to talk to him is very small. Wanwan is mostly exposed to the original wife who was hurt. The material of the article is taken from them, so it is naturally their story.
Back to the topic, we are going to tell a story of a man and a woman betraying her family and the ending is sad.
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is Ms. Dong who came to cry to me!
She said that not all third parties are bad people. They are victims like their original wife. For example, she was deceived by her boyfriend.
Ms. Dong, 39 years old, has an 18-year marriage with her ex-husband Mr. He and has a 16-year-old son. Looking back on his marriage with his ex-husband, Ms. Dong said: "I was only teenage when I met him. He was five years older than me. I thought someone was good to me. Buying me what I like was like me and love, so I married him regardless of it. His family was very poor, so I could only work with him, and my life was very difficult. Others are not bad, but they don't know romance, and I don't know what I think and what I want. Later, I met my current boyfriend. He understands me very much, so we were together."
Ms. Dong's boyfriend's surname is Wang, and he is also a married person like Ms. Dong.
In Ms. Dong's opinion, she and her boyfriend Mr. Wang are in love with each other, and they are both pitiful people who cannot find happiness in their marriage. They keep warm and comfort each other. They believed that the other person was their true love and strengthened the idea of being together for the rest of their lives.
In order to be with her boyfriend, Ms. Dong divorced first. In her words, she left the house for love and for Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang has two sons, but he said he likes his daughter and said he wanted to have a daughter as beautiful as Ms. Dong. But after Ms. Dong became pregnant, the man chose to avoid it, chose to return to her family, and chose to break up with her.
At first, Ms. Dong did not think it was Mr. Wang's fault, and believed that he must have separated from her due to family pressure, and thought that it must be his wife who was hindering them. So she mustered up the courage to find Mr. Wang's family, hoping to have a good talk with Mr. Wang's family, and hoped that Mr. Wang's wife could see the children in her womb and let them go. But the result was different from what she thought. From beginning to end, Mr. Wang denied the relationship with her and tried his best to win back his wife. Even the child in her belly, Mr. Wang was unwilling to admit that it was his.
Ms. Dong didn't expect that the sweetheart who had once spoken sweetly to her would turn her face faster than reading a book. Not only did he slander her for being entangled with other men, but he also denied the child in her belly. Facing her boyfriend's ruthlessness, she didn't know what to do? Her own home is gone, but Mr. Wang, as her boyfriend, is unwilling to give her another home. She doesn't know who is wrong in this matter.
She believes that she and Mr. Wang’s wife are both victims, and she even suffered greater harm than Mr. Wang’s wife. She thinks that the third party is the most pitiful and the one who should be sympathized the most.
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I asked her, "When you dated Mr. Wang, did you know he was married?"
She said, "I know, but he said he had a bad relationship with his wife, and said that if it weren't for the sake of the children, they would have divorced long ago."
I said, "Have you confirmed what Mr. Wang said, "Have you confirmed what Mr. Wang said, "I believe in him, because he is like me, and there is no light in his eyes. The dissatisfaction with marriage is written on his face. He will only be happy when he is with me."
I said, "When you choose to believe in him, when you think you are better than him and your wife, in you When you think you are true love and his wife is docile, when you know that three is going to three, you have already laid the groundwork for the current ending. If he really loves you, he will not let you become a married person as a third party. If you love him, you will not be able to let him bear the infatuation of cheating and abandon his wife and children. There is no true love between you, you only have self-righteousness and each need. You like how he coaxes you, and he likes you whatever you want. "
The establishment of an extramarital affair must be the result of the joint operation of a scumbag and a mistress. In this relationship, there is no real winner, only the real victim - each other's original wife and each other's children.
Ms. Dong's ex-husband and Mr. Wang's wife are both people who live a down-to-earth life, but they meet people like Ms. Dong and Mr. Wang who eat in the bowl and look in the pot, and have the chance to go to other people's houses to stretch their chopsticks.
Whether it is Ms. Dong's children or Mr. Wang's children, they have become the payers for their extramarital affair.
Finally, what I want to say is that extramarital affairs are the result of choice between the two parties. Men plan to cheat, and mistresses are deceived by themselves and pretending to be confused. You have to ask clearly when you are in love. When you are having an extramarital affair, you will be confused and believe whatever the man says? It’s not that they don’t know, they’re pretending not to know. If you succeed in getting to power, you will say that you are unable to control yourself. If you fail to succeed in getting to power, you will say that you have been cheated innocently and put yourself in a position that is more innocent than your original wife to gain sympathy.
The scumbag is willing to beat him, and the mistress is willing to be beaten. The scumbag deliberately, the mistress has the intention, and they are all the same people, pretending to be pitiful and saying innocent. From the day you became a mistress, you should know that the result may not necessarily satisfy you.
Summary: From a stranger to a lover, from a lover to a husband and wife, the marriage of anyone is not easy. I hope that those who have not yet entered marriage will think more and be more cautious. I hope that those who have entered the marriage will be more self-disciplined and cherish it more. If you are in a marriage, don’t destroy the original stability and happiness because of temporary relaxation.
