says that lovers will eventually get married, but such relatives may not be able to grow old until old age. Because the road of marriage is very bumpy, we have to face the increasingly dull relationship, the busy and salt, and all kinds of obstacles.
Some couples can't stand the test of time and become increasingly disharmonious on the road of marriage, so they ended the marriage with divorce. So what does a man feel when he sees his ex-wife again after the couple divorces? We interviewed three men, and their thoughts were different.
Li Feng, 50 years old, sees his ex-wife again after the divorce, I feel very regretful.
My ex-wife Meizi and I have been divorced for two years. I started to be floating because I was successful in my career. Looking at Meizi who only knows how to do laundry and cook and tutor her children's homework, I feel more and more disgusted. Even when it comes to husband and wife at night, I feel uninterested.
Seeing my colleagues live a very casual life, I also followed suit and lived a life of luxury. Of course, I also made the "the most common mistake men make." A lover is not a good-looking lamp. From the moment we had physical contact, she asked me to divorce, otherwise I would have to report my ugly behavior. In order to protect my work and face, I could only ask Mei Zi to divorce me.
I thought Mei Zi would make a big fuss with me, but she was extremely calm and silently packed up her things and went through the divorce procedures with me. Then I got married with my lover.
Lover and Meizi are completely different people. She is lazy and doesn't do housework or take care of the elderly and children. She only knows how to shop and dress up every day. My salary is not enough for her to spend every month. When I was living with my ex-wife, I was the boss, but now I am worried about everything and I am exhausted every day.
After getting married to my lover, my career has also deteriorated. Not only has my position been demoted, but my income has also been reduced a lot.
Later, by chance, I met my ex-wife Meizi. After she left me, she should have lived a happier life and no longer serves everyone. She has time to pay attention to herself. I found that she has become beautiful. Looking at my current life, I really regret divorced my ex-wife.
Wang Yan, 28 years old, has all kinds of helpless marriage, and seeing his ex-wife is just a passerby.
My ex-wife and I have maintained a marriage for only two years, but we feel it is like twenty years. When we got married, our ex-wife had a boyfriend, but the other party’s family background was not good. The ex-wife’s parents were afraid that she would suffer after marrying her, so they tried their best to match us together.
To be honest, I still like her more. She is not a very stunning type, but she has a charming intellectual beauty.
She finally followed her parents' advice and married me. I thought that the beautiful life of holding the beauty belonged to me would begin, but who knew that everything was my wishful thinking.
After getting married, I took care of her and pampered her, but she was like a stalwart heart. Outside, she tried to play the role of a loving couple with me, but when she got home, she locked her in her house and didn't want to communicate too much with me.
I insisted on treating her well and wanted to warm her heart, but no matter how hard I tried, I still failed in the end. In the end, I was so tired that I played the role of a "fake" couple for two years and we still divorced.
We met once after the divorce. To be honest, I was not in a state of trouble, but I just regretted that I had been wasting my two years of great time in vain.
Du Lei, 36 years old, when I saw my ex-wife in a down-and-out look, I feel relieved and happy.
My ex-wife and I have lived for eight years, and I was deceived into being a "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles" for three years. In the past, I worked in other places and ran all over the country all year round. In order to make more money, I always went to places with difficult conditions, and the money I earned was handed over to my ex-wife for safekeeping. I am not afraid of hard work, just because I am afraid that my wife, children and children will suffer grievances.
But I didn't expect that I was not at home. My ex-wife couldn't stand the loneliness and actually got involved with one of my distant cousins. They were lovers for three years. When I was not at home, the man had lived in my house for a long time. This humiliation has been a thorn in my heart.
If I hadn't wanted to go home quickly that time and give her a surprise, maybe I would still be in the dark! That day I went home and found a strange sound at home. I went into the house to check on the two of them doing something indescribable. At that moment, I lost my mind and beat them up. Sadly, the two of them called the police and arrested me in the end, and I also compensated them for a medical expense.
Later I thought about it. It’s not worth getting involved with such a person, so it’s better to divorce!
Later I met my current wife. She is very virtuous and family-oriented, and we live a happy life.
But the ex-wife was a little miserable. After the divorce, she had a foolish relationship with the man for a while and was finally abandoned. Once I saw her sending leaflets on the street. You should know that before, she enjoyed her happiness at home without touching her fingers. Looking at her in a down-and-out look, I felt relieved.
Conclusion: After listening to the words of the three men, I think they chose to divorce at the beginning. The relationship is gone and it hurts each other. It is better to solve it clearly by cutting the mess and then start a new life. Whether you love or hate the other person, let it go. It is not a lifelong fate, and giving up is also a kind of liberation.
