In an intimate relationship, the most feared thing that two people who truly love each other is to break up.
When two people get along, they will inevitably quarrel and conflict. Most of the two people in love, the most common way to resolve conflicts is to choose to break off the connection. Whenever they encounter problems, both of them will remain silent. During the process of disconnecting
, both of them miss each other very much and want to make up quickly, but they don’t want to be the first party to take the initiative.
does not mean that they are unwilling to bow their heads, but that the two of them are taking advantage of the opportunity to disconnect and test each other. In fact, they are always looking forward to each other's news. The most obvious thing about
is that once the connection is disconnected, the two people will have no intention of doing other things. They are holding their phones at any time, opening the dialog box over and over again, editing and deleting the message, and don’t know how to speak.
However, if the relationship between two people has faded, or they have not given sincerity between them, they will feel that the matter of breaking up the connection is irrelevant.
Even for some people, disconnection is like a common occurrence, and any random thing will become the fuse for disconnection.
Sometimes, there is an unpleasant situation. Not only does it not resolve the conflict in time, but it also tacitly breaks the connection, refuses to communicate, and does not pay any attention to this relationship.
In fact, to put it bluntly, you don’t have to worry after breaking the connection. It’s mostly because you have never cared about each other in your heart, so you feel that it doesn’t matter. It’s the same whether you connect or not.
In other words, if two strong feelings arise after the connection is broken, it is probably not the true love between each other.
01: I have never missed each other, I feel that there are all the same ones
Whether two people are in true love is the easiest way to see if they miss each other after they are separated.
For those who sincerely give, the other person is not around, and their hearts are always empty, as if they are missing something, and they are listless in everything they do.
Even those who usually laugh the loudest and noisy, once they don’t have the company of the other party, their whole emotions will become depressed and they are not happy at all.
On the other hand, those who just make do with their lives are habitually centered on themselves, careless about each other, and do not care about anything related to each other, and are still barely maintaining this relationship, just because they have not found a chance to separate.
In other words, if two people do not have true love, their lives will not be affected in any way after they break off their connection. Because they don’t care, they will not have longing in their hearts and feel that they are the same if they have each other.
Moreover, for those who have long wanted to leave, breaking up the connection means separation. Not only is it not sad, but it also has a feeling of relief.
02: When you see everything related to the other party, you will always feel bored with
after breaking off the connection. If you love each other, in addition to missing each other, you will also cherish everything related to the other party.
As the saying goes, "Looking at things and thinking of others", although the two people have a conflict, are still angry, and deliberately ignore each other, after calming down, you will always feel warm in your heart when you see those things related to each other. The memories are full of those happy moments, and the grievance and unhappiness will naturally disappear.
However, if two people are not true love and have never given true feelings, they will not only not be sad after breaking off the connection, but will also develop resentment.
complains that the other party has wasted his time at any time, telling the other party about his shortcomings whenever he meets everyone, making the other party useless, without regard for his past relationship.
and some people even can’t wait to block and delete everything related to the other party once they are disconnected.
Those items that have left beautiful memories will be cleaned up without any nostalgia to avoid being upset when you see them.
This is probably the case for those who have not given their sincerity. Once the connection is broken and separated, the traces that the other party has once existed will be quickly removed.
all say that only two people who truly love each other will know how to cherish each other and care about everything related to each other.
Indeed, love is giving, love is tolerance, two people who truly love each other, breaking up their connection is just a moment, and they are reluctant to leave each other alone for a long time, and they can still be as reconciled as before.
However, if both of them have no other person in their hearts and do not pay attention to this relationship. When they get together, the more conflicts and the deeper the resentment, they will feel dismissed and get bored of these two strong feelings.
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Author: March.
Picture: From the Internet.
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