Adults should learn to maintain the correct way of getting along. Only when you know how to maintain a relationship can you become more mature and rational.
Because the opposite sex is a very sensitive topic, we must maintain our principles in the process of dating with the opposite sex. If there is no bottom line, the relationship between the two will eventually become ambiguous and even out of control.
Once the relationship between the two goes beyond the boundary, it will bring pain to each other's lives and even hurt each other. Such a relationship is actually not a good choice for each other.
true love should be open-minded, and true feelings should be the friendship between two people. Only when you learn to maintain a certain boundary between you will become pure.
If the man and woman do not have such a consciousness when dating, it will be difficult for your relationship to become pure, and they will also do things that hurt each other's feelings due to momentary impulse.
After all, if the relationship between men and women is out of line, then it starts with these interactions first, don't be careless.
Language Ambiguous
When men and women are dating, if the language is particularly ambiguous, the relationship between the two will become less pure with time.
A normal friends will know how to grasp the degree even when chatting, and there will be no unclear relationships, and the language of chatting will not be ambiguous.
Language is often a manifestation of a person's inner self and character. When two people are together, they must learn to maintain a sense of language so that they can respect each other.
When a person chooses to have an ambiguous relationship with a opposite sex, the distance between the two will begin to become unclear.
The reason why a person chooses his partner is actually to relieve his inner loneliness and even seek such a stimulus. If a man and a woman do not have a certain sense of proportion in the process of dating, then the relationship between the two will sooner or later cross the line. Before
, Ms. Wang had a very good friend of the opposite sex. The two were college classmates and were relatively familiar with each other. Ms. Wang had been married for 3 years, but after marriage, her marriage life was not particularly happy, so she would tell her inner grievances to her best friend for a long time.
Over time, the distance between the two became closer and closer, and the relationship was very close. Finally one day, the two also broke through the window paper and had another layer of relationship, but the paper could not be kept popular in the end. When Ms. Wang’s husband found out, the two ended up divorced.
In fact, in a relationship, what I fear most is that I am ambiguous about these two people. The unclear relationship will only make the relationship between them mess up.
Contact on the limbs
When men and women are together, frequent physical contact will often cause earth-shaking changes in the relationship between the two. The relationship between the opposite sex is attracted to each other, I believe everyone knows it.
When there is too much physical contact between the two, it has proved that the relationship between the two is no longer clear. Such behavior will only make the two more intimate.
Men always like to tease women, and women always like to be moved in a relationship. The same is true for some women. It is difficult to remain reserved in front of men, which will cause some changes in the relationship between the two.
So, when physical contact is too frequent, the relationship between the two will also go beyond the boundaries.
often meet privately
Normal boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, then you won’t meet privately often because the two will also know how to keep a certain distance. If the relationship between the two is unclear, it will also cause trouble for this relationship.
Only a person who likes to play ambiguous will find others privately. Such people will not be shy of avoidance when dating others, so they will not be respected by others.
Generally speaking, the relationship between men and women is subtle. If you can maintain a good relationship, the relationship between you two will become sweeter. If your relationship cannot be made public openly, then such a relationship will also become an obstacle to you.
Adults must have their own bottom line when facing relationships. This is a person's cultivation. If a person has no foresight when dealing with a relationship, then this relationship will eventually disappear.
Between men and women, we must learn to handle the relationship between men and women correctly so that the road of love will become smooth.
If you are not clear about your relationship in a relationship, then the relationship will eventually lose each other, and the gain will not be worth the loss.