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Scholar Zhou Guoping once said: Good marriage is the world, and bad marriage is hell. There is only one man between the world and hell.
When a good man is met, a woman's marriage life will become relaxed and stable. When encountering a bad man, a woman's marriage life will become suffocating and even fragmented.
Author Su Xin once said: "There is no good time, it's just someone is carrying the burden on you." But if in marriage, that man doesn't want to carry the burden on you, all the persistence of a woman becomes a joke.
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Before Shumei married her husband, she had always promised her parents with confidence that she would not marry if she met the true emperor. The parents could not stop them, and they did not dare to break up with them. They forced their daughter to be disloyal with them, so they could only protect their daughter in their own way.
So, when Shumei got married, her parents dowed a house, and her real estate certificate only wrote her name. In order to ensure that the daughter has no worries about food and clothing after marriage, the parents privately gave her 100,000 yuan dowry, and then she sent her daughter to get married with confidence.
Shumei's generous dowry made her husband's family happy. It was just that their smiles disappeared in the first month of their wedding. Because no matter how they persuaded him, Shumei refused to add her husband's name to the property certificate.
Seeing that the name was fruitless, her husband asked Shumei to take out 100,000 yuan in dowry to pay off his parents' debts, saying that in order to meet Shumei's wedding requirements, his parents took debts to organize the marriage, and Shumei could not stand idly by.
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could not resist her husband's soft and hard work, so Shumei could only take out 50,000 yuan. After marriage, Shumei also repeatedly asked her husband to submit her salary card, but her husband kept stammering and either made excuses to make excuses.
Shumei had no choice but to take out her salary to pay for her family expenses and mortgage. Although her parents helped her pay the down payment and bought a house, she could not let her parents pay her mortgage.
Later, my brother-in-law wanted to get married, and my mother-in-law asked her to lend the dowry house to my brother-in-law, saying that she would return it after they got married. But Shumei didn't want to cause trouble, and she didn't want to lead the wolf into the house. In the future, she even took over her dowry room, so she naturally refused.
The in-laws, whose various requirements cannot be met, are also dissatisfied with Shumei, the daughter-in-law. In the early stages of Shumei's pregnancy, her morning sickness was severe, and for the sake of the child, she had to quit her job and go home to take care of her baby.
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. Just a few days after she quit her job and went home to take care of her baby, her husband asked her to go back to her parents' home to borrow 200,000 yuan to buy a house for his brother. He also said that the woman was pregnant and refused to get married without a married house. His brother would be bachelor for the rest of his life. His parents sighed all day long, and his hair turned white.
Shumei was very angry at her husband's behavior of asking for houses and money from her in various ways. My brother-in-law is not her son, so it is also the responsibility of her parents-in-law to buy a house and get married. Why do they all blame her sister-in-law?
Shumin refused, but not long after, her husband said with confidence: "You are pregnant and have no job, and you have to pay 5,000 yuan in mortgage every month. My mother said we are AA." Looking at her foolish and filial husband in front of her, Shumei was discouraged.
The parents advised her to wait until the child is born before divorce, but Shumei couldn't wait for a day. Looking at her in-laws' family and her pillow, and plotting against her house and dowry every day, Shumei was in tears.
This time she didn't delay too long and said to her husband directly: "Okay, I'll help you, you'll leave the house immediately, let's get divorced." Shumei did what she said, without any soft compromise because of the child in her belly.
Shumei has long considered it. Instead of living a life with a foolish and filial man, she would rather divorce simply. Anyway, she and her parents can definitely afford to raise their children.
Today's topic:
Do you support Shumei getting a cheap filial man during pregnancy?
