An old lady said sadly: I haven’t been home for a long time. I live here and there every day, and I feel so annoying. Why did the old lady say this? What is the hidden truth in this?
The old lady's surname is Zhang. Due to cerebral infarction and , it was not very convenient to move. When my wife was alive, Mrs. Zhang lived a good life, but since her wife passed away, Mrs. Zhang's son refused to go home with her mother and sisters. Mrs. Zhang could only take turns to live at her five daughters' houses. Old Mrs. Zhang, who was originally unable to move, was very tired of this kind of life, so she wanted to live in her home and her daughters could go home to take care of her, so she didn't have to move around. But for Mrs. Zhang, such a wish seems a bit difficult to realize. The daughters had no choice but to seek help from reporters.
The daughters told the reporter that in order to let the mother go home early, they also communicated with their younger brother many times, but they didn't leave every time. Once, the younger brother brought someone to beat the sisters, which also made the sisters a little afraid of the younger brother. Is what those sisters said true?
reporter took Old Lady Zhang to his son Yao Wei's house, but Old Lady Zhang was not excited when she saw Yao Wei and his daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law said to Old Lady Zhang: It turns out that it's fine, and she will never make a fuss to this extent.
At this moment, an aunt came to the yard, and Yao Wei's sisters had a fierce quarrel with the aunt. During the quarrel, the reporter learned that the old man was Yao Wei's biological mother, Aunt Li, and Old Lady Zhang was only Yao Wei's adoptive mother.
It turns out that old lady Zhang and his wife gave birth to daughters when they were young, and they were all sons in their family. In order to continue the family line, the couple discussed with their relatives to adopt their younger son to Mrs. Zhang and her husband. The other party agreed without thinking.
After Yao Wei’s adoption, the old lady Zhang and his wife were very good to Yao Wei, and the relationship between the siblings was also very good, but everything changed after Yao Wei’s death.
Because Yao Wei's father lived in the hospital for a period of time before his death, and the medical expenses during the hospital were paid by Yao Wei's father himself. But the last time his father was hospitalized, his sister paid 5,000 yuan in medical expenses, and the old father refunded 3,800 yuan when he was discharged. Because the sisters were busy with his father's affairs, the discharge procedures were entrusted by my cousin to go through. The cousin who had completed the discharge procedures happened to meet Yao Wei, so his cousin gave the money to Yao Wei. The sister later asked Yao Wei for the money, but Yao Wei refused to accept it. The two sides argued endlessly about the ownership of the money. Yao Wei also said at the time that if the 3,800 yuan was taken out, he would not care about his father's funeral.
After this incident, Old Mrs. Zhang was very disappointed with Yao Wei. There was also a gap between mother and son. In order to sever the mother-son relationship with Yao Wei, Mrs. Zhang entrusted her daughters to sue Yao Wei in court, but the court's judgment was to support adoption relationship . After this incident, the relationship between the siblings broke up completely.
Yao Wei felt that if the sisters hadn't been disturbed by it, his mother wouldn't have done this. And the sisters felt that Yao Wei and his biological mother had other plans. Yao Wei had a house after he got married, and his parents lived alone in the old house. After his father passed away, they heard that the house might be expropriated. Yao Wei and Aunt Li did not allow them to go back to visit their mothers, for fear that their sisters would share the money. Yao Wei's biological mother also had conflicts with her sisters many times. Yao Wei also admitted that the sisters were incompatible with her mother, but her mother was just afraid that she would be bullied by her sisters, and her mother did not instigate her.
Regarding the fact that the sisters were not allowed to go home, Yao Wei felt that the house was promised to him by his father before he died, and he had the right not to let his sisters come back to live. Yao Wei also said that shortly after his father passed away, the eldest sister and fourth sister came to the house to cause trouble, beat their daughter-in-law, and then took their mother out, but he did not drive her out. Yao Wei also welcomed his mother home. But it is impossible for the sisters to go home. If the sisters come, Yao Wei will drive the sisters out.
Finally, the sisters proposed to let their mother come back and then they took turns to take care of them. Yao Wei also agreed, but the condition was that the sisters were not allowed to live at home.
The sisters disagreed with Yao Wei’s request because the sisters married far away, and it would be unrealistic if they went back and forth. The two sides were in a deadlock again. Seeing that the sisters disagreed, Yao Wei walked out of the door without looking back.
The reporter also followed Yao Wei and asked Yao Wei to make appropriate concessions for his mother. Yao Wei said that he had already made concessions and was not allowed to come back to serve his mother from the beginning. Now that he agreed, they were unwilling to do so.
Hearing Yao Wei say this reporter questioned Yao Wei: This is the sisters’ family, why don’t you let them come back? You don’t let them live here? Your request is too unreasonable. Faced with the reporter's questioning, Yao Wei was still tough. Yao Wei no longer accepted mediation and said that if the sisters were dissatisfied with this, they could sue him and leave.
Every family has a difficult sutra to recite. Yao Wei has too much grudge against his sisters, and his siblings do not even have basic trust. The family lacks communication, which makes things worse and worse.
