People need to be realistic and learn to face reality. The relationships between people come and go. If you look at it openly, you won’t worry about how realistic others are.
The most feared that you only value feelings but are irrational. You always feel that feelings are more important than everything. But in reality, you can only have some contact with each other in the same environment. After leaving this environment, you will be familiar strangers.
Be honest, sober, rational and decisive. Feelings are at the back, after all, people must live clearly and realistically.
Don’t miss the good times we were together in the past, and feel how cold each other is now. It doesn’t matter anymore. The cruelty of reality is to make you think it is easier. The relationship between people is not that close, nor is it that good.
Relationships can all be achieved by getting along with each other, and feelings will gradually fade if they don’t get along with each other.
When people reach middle age, they should handle the people and things around them rationally and decisively. The way of dragging and tangled will not enhance their feelings, but just seeking troubles.
The best respect for each other, don’t ask for anything else, because reality will disappoint you.
Dear, I hope you can be rational and sober in everything you do, not be entangled, be able to end a relationship decisively, and be brave to start a new journey.