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Introduction:
A 43-year-old male nanny said: "I originally thought about doing a good job as a nanny, but what makes me really frustrated is that since I served this 56-year-old female employer, I have lost myself. Although the salary is quite high, and I have 5,500 yuan a month, I need to promise her many conditions, that is, I must obey her arrangements." What kind of thing has I experienced? Let’s take a look at Mr. Lin’s story together.
self-reporter: Mr. Lin 43 years old
I am 43 years old this year. I am a rural person. My parents have no ability. They are both farmers. Because my family conditions were poor when I was a child, I had not attended many schools. I came to work after junior high school and helped my parents with farm work. I got married earlier, much earlier than those who went to school. I got married when I was 22 years old. My wife is also from our village and we have not had a high education.
After working for several years, I felt that working with the loess and backs on the sky could not solve the financial problems at home. I still have to learn a craft. I think the contractor is quite profitable, and I am also good at being a bricklayer. I earn a lot of money, at least I earn more than doing farm work. In any case, it is a craft. I got started quickly and have been doing this for nearly 20 years.
But then I couldn't do it anymore because I accidentally fell down my wrist once when I worked, so I was unable to continue doing the heavy work in the construction, but once I fell down, who would raise my wife and children? This is a very intuitive question. My wife can't make much money at work, so I have to make money and I can't stop.
Later I asked about the jobs that made money, and I didn't consider some of the jobs that I worked hard. I heard some guys say that the current male nanny is still relatively profitable, so I found a job as a nanny. At first, I served an elderly couple. I was quite reliable in my work. The salary they paid me was 4,800 yuan. I thought it was quite good at that time, but later they moved away and I had to find an employer again.
Later, the employer I served was a 56-year-old single woman. She lived on her own. She heard that her wife died early and her only daughter had married in another place. She usually depends on two dogs for life. Now she is not in good health, so she wants to find a nanny to serve her. The salary she paid me was 5,500 yuan per month, and there was also a reward mechanism, which means that there would be a bonus if she did a good job.
Her furniture and appliances are all famous brands. At first glance, she is not short of money. I didn’t ask what business she was doing before, but I had to work hard for such a high salary. But later I realized that this job is not as simple as working hard. She later made a lot of requests for me, which made me feel a little breathless.
female employer told me: "My two dogs are my companionship partners. After you come, you have to walk the dog at 6 am every day, and then bathe the dog at 4 pm. The hygiene at home cannot delay cleaning. I have to serve my two dogs and not let them eat outside. If you have diarrhea, I will deduct your salary." Before I could speak, she started to add again.
She continued: "Take good care of dogs is just one of your jobs. In addition, you have to wash my feet every day. If it thunderstorms, you can't take a leave that day because I'm afraid, you have to be at home. You can't cook on the weekly food. I like to eat some food on the list, and I can't make it too greasy. Another thing is that when someone goes out for a walk, when you ask who you are, you have to answer that it's my wife. I think you look good, which is for you to save face.”
After she said this, I was very angry and I finally couldn't hold it in. I said, "I am just a nanny. I am only responsible for serving your daily life. Walking the dog is not within my work scope. I will work hard to cook, but please don't force me, and I also threaten to deduct my salary at any time. I will not lie, and I am not your wife. "
After I finished speaking, the female employer became furious. She said that if I was disobedient, I would report me and deduct my monthly salary that month. I have never seen such an employer. She is really too difficult to serve. Should I quit my job? If I endure it, I will feel very uncomfortable, but my family also needs money, and I also need a high-paying job.
Today's topic:
In my opinion, this female employer has indeed made a lot of requests, which are beyond the scope of the nanny's ability. The nanny and the employer should live in harmony and should not be petty for some trivial matters, otherwise the trust between the two will be hurt in the end, and it will not last long.
Do you think the request made by the female employer is too much? Should Mr. Lin resign? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below to discuss.
