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The most pitiful parents in this world are working as cows and horses for their sons when they were young, and they worked hard all their lives. As a result, in his old age, he ended up having no support.
In fact, parents are the most selfless. In order for the sake of the good life of their children, parents can often sacrifice everything they have. But when I was old age, my children came to be filial, but no one was willing to support my parents selflessly. Either make this or that.
Aunt Wu went to take care of her son's grandson for 5 years and spent 100,000 yuan in pension, but when she went back to take care of her sick wife for a month, her daughter-in-law clamored that she would not be able to retire. Aunt Wu had no choice but to leave her husband. But facing the demands of her daughter-in-law to become more and more arduous, she had no choice but to go back to her hometown.
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Aunt Wu and his wife paid for their son’s wedding room out of their own pockets. After the wedding was held, Aunt Wu went to her son’s house to take care of her pregnant daughter-in-law at the call of her son.
The son is happy, and Aunt Wu was originally happy and very happy. But who knew that after going to her son's house for three years, she spent 100,000 yuan in retirement. And I don’t know when this bottomless pit will end, Aunt Wu is really overwhelmed.
Aunt Wu stayed at her son's house for 5 years and worked as a free nanny for 5 years. If her wife hadn't suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized, she needed to go back to take care of her, and she might have been a nanny forever, after all, her daughter-in-law refused to let her go.
After learning that my wife was hospitalized alone, Aunt Wu couldn't sit still. She took a bus back to her hometown overnight despite her daughter-in-law's objection. During the month I was taking care of my wife in my hometown, my son called three times every day, asking Aunt Wu when she would go back, saying that no one cared about the children at home.
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Aunt Wu was a little angry when she heard that her grandson was not in charge. My grandson is 5 years old and has gone to kindergarten. He doesn’t need someone to take care of him when eating and sleeping. His daughter-in-law gets off work at 6 o’clock every day, so she can handle it.
But my son said that in the past, you did it yourself to take care of the children. When you suddenly returned to your hometown, the child was not used to it, and the daughter-in-law couldn't take over. Aunt Wu said angrily that she is the child's biological mother and she can't take care of the child herself, so she let her parents take over the care of the child.
No matter how the son urged him or how his daughter-in-law got angry, Aunt Wu finally returned to her son's house after her wife was in good health. As soon as she went to her son's house, her daughter-in-law began to ask Aunt Wu to pay 3,000 yuan a month, and she would ask her parents to take care of the children, and the 3,000 yuan was the hard work fee for her parents.
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When she heard that her daughter-in-law asked her parents to pay 3,000 yuan a month for hard work, and she even asked her to pay the money, Aunt Wu felt that she was regarded as a sucker by her daughter-in-law.
Aunt Wu naturally refused. She rejected her daughter-in-law and told her that she had borne the family expenses every month and was responsible for all the expenses of her grandson, and she had long been overwhelmed.
Over the past five years, she has spent 100,000 yuan. Not only has her pension been lost, but she has also paid for her husband's pension. But my wife was hospitalized when she was sick, and her son and daughter-in-law didn't ask any questions, and didn't pay any money, so she would just urge her every day to come back to take care of the child.
Aunt Wu feels more and more heartbroken. She feels that she is not raising her son and grandson, she is simply a ungrateful wolf who has raised a family. Thinking of his old age and his wife, Aunt Wu didn't dare to count on her anymore. She packed her luggage directly and proposed to go back to her hometown to retire. She would not come out again in the future, and asked her son and daughter-in-law to arrange for people to take care of the children.
When she heard that Aunt Wu was leaving and she would never come out again, her daughter-in-law became anxious: "If you leave, what should the child do? What should we do? You only have one son. If you don't expect your son to support her, who else can you expect to support her? Anyway, I won't support her if you don't take care of her grandchildren, so the child will change her surname."
The threat from the daughter-in-law made Aunt Wu even more heartbroken and left without looking back. After that, she ignored her son and daughter-in-law.Afterwards, the son and daughter-in-law ignored them, as if they had not forgotten them, and did not show up during the holidays or call.
Although my son and daughter-in-law are so cruel, Aunt Wu is very sad. But she did not regret it. After all, if she stayed at her son's house, she probably couldn't even keep her wallet. After her pension money was emptied, could she expect her daughter-in-law to support her pension?
Today’s topic:
Do you support Aunt Wu to return to her hometown to take care of her own old age?
