Recently, the death of my mother-in-law. During the funeral, several relatives and friends were inevitably involved in the relationship between the relatives and friends, like other families in the world, due to various problems, different positions and ideas. The ground is full of mess, and it is still messy when it is cut.
Life sea, most of the troubles and happiness come from the warmth and distance of the relationship between people; from who wants to dominate everything, and others don’t want to be dominated; from when in the face of such a big event in the family, some people want to act according to their will, but are not good at communicating with others. If they meet extremely sensitive people again, it will make the very simple things extremely complicated.
Fortunately, my wife has always been a simple person. She never likes complicated things when encountering things. Although she is the eldest among sisters, I have always advised her not to treat herself as the eldest, because it is really not fun to be the eldest.
I remembered Mr. A’s family affairs again. A few days ago, his mother was hospitalized due to illness and had to pay in advance, which was his younger brother. When Mr. A arrived anxiously, he saw his younger brother asking his parents about the advance payment with a smile.
Jun A was furious. He spent the most money for his family over the years, but his parents thought it was natural, especially because they gave many of the money given to Mr A secretly. But now why is he so embarrassed to pay the advance?
A Jun was angry, but his younger brother was fine, and even his parents said to him in reverse: How big a thing? What does the family share with you?
A When Jun complained to me, I smiled unkindly: You are really meddling in other people’s business! There are always some people and things that you can't control or control. Since you are powerless, it is better to let it go. Be yourself well and give good intentions. Don’t think about anything else, because thinking is useless!
The ancients said that a gentleman’s friendship is as light as water, so why is it not the best between relatives and friends? Not getting involved in everything, not being able to interfere with others, and maintaining a proper sense of boundaries may make oneself more mentally happy and not having troubles.
You don’t have to be as enthusiastic as fire, because fire can warm people and hurt people. But I must maintain a normal kindness, and in the dim lights of , I am as warm as before. In this way, I am the best for myself and others. We should especially cherish it and cherish it.
