First say "two will not move"
The ancients often said "At thirty, you will not be confused when you are forty." When men were 30 years old, they started their families and careers, and when they were 40 years old, they had a stable family and career. These two things were unmovable. Next, let’s talk about why you can’t move.
First, family cannot move. It is said that home is a shelter, and men always feel physically and mentally exhausted when they are experiencing careers. Having a stable family is a way out and a safe haven for him. Men can feel sincere feelings and warmth in the family, and have the care of their parents, wives and even children. This kind of family affection cannot be bought no matter how much money is spent, so the family cannot move.
Second, career cannot move. At the age of 40, it is the golden period of a man's career. No matter which industry he is in, he will basically make a difference at this time. If you change jobs at the age of 40 and enter a field you have never been familiar with, you may have put your previous efforts in vain. In addition, as the pillar of the family, if a man changes jobs due to his own personal reasons, it will have a great impact on his family, so his career cannot be moved.
Next, let’s talk about “three no changes”
first, health cannot be changed. Physical health is the foundation of a person. Only by having a healthy body can you have the capital to do other things. However, in the critical period of career, many people often ignore their health in order to work hard, staying up late, smoking, drinking and socializing have become their daily essential jobs. If this continues, your body will definitely suffer great damage. So what if you succeed in your career? Health can never be replaced. Therefore, everyone must pay attention to their physical health and remember that health cannot be changed.
Second, the original intention cannot be changed. Everyone came from adolescence. At that time, we were arrogant, ambitious, and had our own original aspirations and ideals. Although more than 20 years have passed, that original aspiration and love should not disappear with the passage of time. We must always maintain our original aspiration so that we can maintain our love at work and look at work with a healthy and positive attitude, so the original aspiration cannot be changed.
Third, literacy cannot be changed. Everyone's qualities are slowly formed after years of precipitation, and qualities are particularly important in daily work and life. Only by having good moral qualities can others trust you, make friends with you or discuss business. If you change your moral qualities easily, it will make others feel uncomfortable, which will have adverse effects on your career and life, so your qualities cannot be changed.
Finally, I will talk about "three no touches"
First of all, gambling cannot be touched. I believe everyone has heard of nine out of ten bets, and few people in the casino can come out with great enthusiasm. When a person reaches 40, it is the time when his family and career are most stable. Many people may step into the casino in order to seek excitement and think that they have figured out the tricks, but they do not know that they have fallen into the abyss and may lose their perfect life in a mess. So don’t be lucky and touch gambling.
The second is that you cannot encounter an affair. It is said that men are 41 flowers, and 40-year-old men have successful careers and exudes the charm of mature men. There may be many young girls who take the initiative to confess their love. However, at this time, men should see their hearts clearly and control their desires. Think about your virtuous wife who is busy at home. If you destroy a beautiful family because of your own selfish desires and hurt your wife who has been silently working behind the scenes for many years, it will be too late to regret it.
Third, the bottom line cannot be touched. As a person, you must have a bottom line. You must not only have your own bottom line, but also abide by the bottom line of the law. As mentioned above, loyalty to our family and wife is the bottom line of life, and when interacting with others, integrity is also the bottom line of our friendship. And the bottom line of the law should not be touched, and the rules should be abide by and the bottom line should be kept.
Seeing this, I believe everyone has a certain understanding of the saying "A person is at forty, don't move, don't change, don't touch", and at the important age of 40, the warnings left by the ancients to us are of great reference significance.
What do you think about this?
