people, flowers, plants and other creatures, if you want to show yourself too much, you will disappoint people and weaken your original charm.
briefly talked about it, and it was destined to be a disaster
During the period of the Song Dynasty, a doctor Li opened a Chinese medicine shop.
One day, someone suddenly had a strange disease came to the door. Doctor Li prescribed a few pills and cured the disease. The patient came to thank him in person, and Doctor Li was even more enthusiastic and prepared good wine and dishes. The two had a great chat.
While drinking, Doctor Li talked about his childhood neighbor who was an official in the court, and also talked about the unknown embarrassing things that the neighbor was not known to him. The two laughed together, very comfortable.
After a while, Li Langzhong's Chinese medicine shop was seized by the government. After an unknown reason, Li Langzhong found out that it was the previous patient who spread the embarrassing story about his neighbor.
Dr. Li only blames that he was not familiar with the patient at the beginning, so he spoke freely, but now it is too late to regret it.
The so-called meeting was too late, but it was mixed with the perfection you imagined.
Therefore, when you get along with others, don’t talk in a very deep way. Always maintain a safe distance so that you can live up to others and not hurt yourself.
The faster you cook, the faster you disperse
very much agrees with the sentence:
The relationship between adults is step by step. Those who get close to you ten times faster will leave you ten times faster at some point in the future.
Do whatever you reach the stage. If you are eager to achieve success, it will only backfire.
The same is true for people’s feelings. From the greetings at the nod to the sincerity of honesty, it has to be brewing and patiently waiting.
In the spring of 1932, the writer Qian Zhongshu and his wife Yang Jiang met by chance in Tsinghua University .
The two fell in love at first sight and had a great time talking to each other. Both sides were attracted by each other's talents.
But since then, they have not been anxious to develop their relationship, but have adopted the most traditional way to contact their relationship: Hongyan passes letters and poems conveys emotions.
Just like that, during the communication between you and me, the two of them calmly understood and familiarized themselves with everything about each other.
After getting married, they walked slowly through their lives together and became the most enviable fairy couple in the hearts of countless people.
A slower relationship, longer lasting
A long-lasting relationship is like a cup of good tea, light but not astringent, fragrant but not suffocating, and it floats slowly, making people feel endless aftertaste.
Steps slow down and emotions slow down.
can withstand the scrutiny of time, withstand the passage of time, give each other more time and space, so that there will be more future.
In life, some people can only look far away but not close; some words can only be said slowly but not said completely.
is coming enthusiastically and may not last long; it may not be far or near, and may not be separated soon.
No matter what relationship is, start slowly and get along with each other more easily.
Friends, just be intimate, and only by slowly being able to last;
Friends, taste lightly and carefully, and then you will have a aftertaste;
For the rest of your life, I hope that we will treat every relationship more lightly and slowly.
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