text/An Dongyue
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When you fall in love with someone, you will want to confess to him and let him know what you want.
When you miss someone, you will really want to meet him and let him see your obsession.
If the person you love happens to love you too, your confession is the beginning of a romantic love story.
If the person you miss also miss you, your meeting will be particularly sweet and beautiful.
It’s a pity that not all love and miss will respond. Love that goes to two directions requires a deep fate between two people. Otherwise, it may be that the fallen flowers are intentional and the flowing water is ruthless.
If the person you love does not love you, your confession is just a passionate disturbance to him.
If the person you miss doesn’t miss you, your meeting will be meaningless.
Therefore, if you love and miss someone, you need to decide how to deal with it and how to face it based on the actual situation.
Love is a matter of one person, but love is a matter of two people. Loving someone unilaterally is never considered love, it is just a person's obsession.
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Have you ever loved anyone? What happened later?
A friend once talked about an experience. She had just started working shortly before, and was alone in a city far away from home. Just then, she met him.
He is her colleague and the two meet every day. He is about the same age as her, has a very sunny appearance and a very easy-going personality. Most importantly, he took good care of her, was very sincere and attentive.
She fell in love with him and thought he liked her, so she confessed to him with confidence. However, he rejected her.
He said that he cared about her and took care of her because he saw her doing whatever she did, and she had no friends, and it was not easy. That's all, there was no other meaning.
She thought he had some unspeakable difficulties, so she pestered him all day long and asked him whether he liked her or not. Because love, reserve, pride, and self-esteem are all left behind.
unilaterally loves someone, and it is destined to have no results. They are always just friends.
She still cares about him very much and often misses him, but she will not disturb him anymore. Because, although she had loved him deeply, they had never been together, and there was only friendship, no love between them. If you are struggling, it will only make you feel even more embarrassed.
03.
There is a kind of love called hidden deep in your heart and thinking of you silently. The reason why
is hidden is because it is destined to have no results.
The reason why I miss you is because I cannot get it because of love and I am forgetting but reluctant to give up.
We often say that some people have met enough. But in fact, it is not that you are satisfied if you really meet it, but that you are destined to be ineffective. You can only comfort yourself to know how to be content.
Love is born from the heart, and once you love it, it is difficult to let go. However, love without response is just a person's obsession after all.
In this world, the most unsupported thing is love. Therefore, when the person you love does not love you, you must learn to let go and learn to let go.
The so-called letting go is not forcing yourself to forget, but controlling your words and deeds, no longer disturbing, or entangling.
The so-called letting go is not about not caring or missing, but about not tangling why, accepting reality calmly, and facing life calmly.
There is nothing wrong with love, there is nothing wrong with not loving it. If the person you love does not love you, then keep him in your heart, miss him silently, and think about him for the rest of your life.
There is a kind of love, which is called thinking about you in your heart and thinking about you for the rest of your life. Don't be sad for the ending, don't be desolate for the past, just seal everything in your heart, and become a person's long-lasting world...
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Author: An Dongyue, a free writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
