I always feel that I have been married for a long time, but after thinking about it carefully, it has only been two years. Maybe it is highly likely that I have entered the dull period of my marriage, although I am still a little caught off guard.
In fact, this is not a bad thing, and there is no need to escape. People usually don’t like the word plain, it sounds bland and boring, like a cup of cold boiled water. If you happen to be a modifier of love, you will probably be even more disliked. Yet, love is one of the few things in the world that can make people feel strong, such as charcoal in the snow and summer fan, which makes the silent days come alive.
I am the kind of person who is prone to being manic in love. This mania often makes me a new self. For example, I can wash bangs in the pool in a mess, but I spend two hours before dates, I wash my hair, take a shower and put on full makeup; for example, I am a senior home where I can lie down and never sit, but when I am in love, I am obsessed with going up and down the sea; for example, I am sober in the eyes of my friends, but once I fall in love, I start to choose to blindness. Therefore, my love experience is always so irritating that I can't imagine it can be calm.
My husband and I are no exception, so when I was sitting on the sofa with my unkempt nails on a normal day, I suddenly felt like I was a different life. I once saw him butterfly and flew all day long, and would wear a small black dress and a big red scarf on winter days when I was dating. Now he has long turned a blind eye to his existence, and his clothes have become sweatshirts and pants that have remained unchanged for thousands of years.
The WeChat conversation in the picture happened on the day he came back two weeks after he went out. I was busy complaining that I was a little confused when I was at home alone, and I couldn't even clean up the stains on my child's bathtub until I was satisfied. Then he watched him get his luggage and turn into a gyroscope in seconds, sorting garbage, cleaning the floor, and renovating inside and outside the house.
I am not a person with poor life ability, but he gave me the confidence to relax and be lazy. I used to be obsessed with the love of you in a man's mouth, but now I care more about the "I am here" conveyed by the actions. I was manic enough and began to want to be myself. Perhaps ordinary love is broken in time. Time is like water, and it is a ripples.
The injuries I have suffered on the road of love have become my armor. And now, I can finally take it off. Because I have a new armor, it is him.
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