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Although everyone is equal, in fact, people's lives are still different.
In fact, as a newborn, the family decides to be born, and some girls have already lost at the starting line.
Just like in the book "The Courage of Being Hate": Some people have wealthy and kind parents, while others have poor and vicious parents. This is the world.
But for middle-aged women, after half of their life, most of them have broken free from the limitations brought by their original family and lived a new life.
What are the differences between middle-aged women? For example, the amount of wealth and the degree of happiness. The following three things are often the ones that widen these gaps.
1, the ability to express language
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.
The damage caused by language violence is sometimes no less than the damage caused by behavior.
For middle-aged women, if she is a workplace woman, but because she can’t speak, she will easily offend people.
If she is a housewife, because of her poor language expression ability, she can easily make her married life messy.
The disease enters from the mouth, and the disaster comes from the mouth. Women who can be at ease in love and workplace are often women with good eloquence.
Because women who only work hard can’t get the attention of their leaders in the workplace; they are easily ignored by men in love.
Only women who are eloquent and have a particularly clear mind can live a completely different life with those stupid women.
So, in addition to appearance, one of the things that widen the gap between middle-aged women is the ability of women to express language.
2. Wisdom in dealing with people and dealing with people
" Dream of Red Mansions " has this sentence: . Knowledge of the world is knowledge, and understanding of human feelings is article.
This sentence was written by the author to praise Wang Xifeng . A woman can manage such a huge family affairs in an orderly manner, and can also make everyone obey and manage it. In today's society, it is the big boss of a company.
When I first read "Dream of Red Mansions", I felt particularly regretful for the Lin Daiyu who lacked love since childhood and ended up miserably. But she was too pretentious about some of her behavior and did not agree with her.
It’s no wonder that everyone prefers Baochai , because she is very friendly to people, and the first thing she considers is the feelings of others rather than her own. In real life, we also prefer to interact with such women, regardless of gender.
So what widens the gap between Daiyu and Baochai and the gap between middle-aged women is their different attitudes and ways of treating others.
3, the choice of lover's marriage
There is a saying on the Internet: Marriage is the second birth of a woman.
I believe many middle-aged women will also have deep feelings. If you choose the right person at first, you can be spoiled by your lover every day and become a carefree child, and your smile is more than tears. If you choose the wrong person, you will lose your temper every day for trivial matters in life, and you will complain with a sad look when you meet people.
In fact, the choice of marriage is not just as simple as measuring money. Because no matter how rich a man is, if he doesn’t love you, the money has nothing to do with you.
is like a reader sharing her emotional experience: So what if I marry a rich man, so what if I don’t have to work at home, but the money he earns will never be handed over to me. When I don’t have enough money to spend, I always go to my husband to ask for it in a low voice. This day is really atrocious.
Therefore, choosing marriage requires multiple dimensions to consider. It is also very important to be a person and how much the other person loves you.
What opens up the gap between middle-aged women is no longer the original family, but the family that women reorganize after marriage.
Everything is charming and affectionate conclusion:
What often opens up the gap between middle-aged women is these three things: 's ability to express language, wisdom in dealing with people and marriage choices.
The first two are required to women to know how to constantly improve themselves, and in the end, women must keep a clear mind to weigh the pros and cons when deciding to develop intimate relationships.
Because you can still live without love; but if you don’t have happy days, you will be particularly painful. So women should work hard on these three things.
A middle-aged woman with high spirits, wisdom and compassion is always more charming, and at the same time, she can truly enjoy the peace and quiet of the years.
