When people reach middle age, they must learn to be alone.
lit a cigarette, pour a glass of wine, and make a pot of tea..., taste it slowly and carefully, you can taste a different taste, and you will taste other people's sweetness.
Many middle-aged people like to sit in the car after returning to the community, listen to music, smoke a cigarette, and then go home.
Is this a good habit?
Maybe, maybe not.
It is difficult for a person to be alone when he is middle-aged, but he must learn to be alone.
When you reach middle age, calming yourself is more important than exercising.
Many times, middle-aged people will think of Xin Qiji 's "Ugly Nuer·Shubo Mountain Road Middle Wall",
A boy does not recognize the taste of sorrow and falls in love with the upper class.
Falling in love with the upper class and forcing new words to express sorrow.
Now I know the taste of sorrow, and I still want to say it.
I want to say it but I still want to stop, but I think it’s so cool!
This is the most true portrayal of middle-aged people. After experiencing the taste of sorrow, I can only say that it is cool and autumn.
The gatherings of middle-aged people may be for drinking;
The solitude of middle-aged people may be for drinking, and of course smoking.
If you have a car, you can sit in the car and smoke, but you can't drink in the car. After all, you don't drive and don't drink.
The fun of middle-aged people is that they are all left alone except drinking and smoking.
Middle-aged people who are alone will think of many things and want to change many things; although we cannot change many things, we must face them.
35 years old, it seems to be a hurdle in China, and it is even more so in the workplace.
person is over 35 years old and is basically middle-aged or even elderly.
Of course, if you are a woman, you may not need to be 35 years old. As long as you have a child, your competitiveness in the workplace may be different.
Children may become a weak point for women, and they cannot let go of their children and cannot afford to take on their jobs.
A man reaches 35, as long as he changes career or resigns, everything will return to zero.
Of course, we are talking here that it is just the general public, not including top figures in the industry and outstanding talents in the field. After all, these are all minorities and cannot represent the majority of middle-aged people.
Yesterday was like the flowing water, never returning. It may be difficult for middle-aged people to come back.
It is difficult for middle-aged people to lie flat, and it is even more difficult not to lie flat.
Therefore, you must learn to be alone.
Stay away from dust and smoke, summarize your first half of your life and share your first half of your work and life experience.
For middle-aged people, although the first half of their lives is a bit early, when they reach middle age, it is indeed a watershed in life. Once they reach middle age, they are as deep as the sea, and from then on, life is like a passerby.
person is middle-aged, whether he has a promising future, has made no money, has he been promoted to an executive, or has been promoted to a senior official, in the eyes of others, he has basically taken shape.
No one will follow you again, including relatives and friends, or even your family.
But you have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of the family, with old people above and young middle-aged people below. Can you relax?
When people reach middle age, they must learn to be alone.
lit a cigarette, pour a glass of wine, and make a pot of tea..., taste it slowly and carefully, you can taste a different taste, and you will taste other people's sweetness.
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