Introduction:
says that parents love their biological daughter more, but Ye Miao's parents are completely opposite. Ye Miao's parents are more realistic. Ye Miao married a poor boy, and Ye Miao's younger brother married a rich wife from his parents' family. So since the rich daughter-in-law entered the house, Ye Miao's parents treated her as their biological daughter, but instead treated Ye Miao, the married daughter, as the water splashed out, and didn't care much about it.
Parents think that whoever has money should be good to whom. Since the daughter-in-law is rich, then they should be nice to their daughter-in-law. If their biological daughter is willing to marry a rich son-in-law, then of course they will also care more about Ye Miao. But Ye Miao, the daughter, has a stubborn temper and insists on marrying a poor son-in-law who has nothing. Her daughter is willing to suffer with her poor son-in-law, but her parents can't see any hope from her daughter. Therefore, since Ye Miao got married, her parents have agreed in her heart that if this daughter gets married, it means she has no more.
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Ye Miao is kind-hearted. Although her husband has no money, she never accuses her husband in life. Ye Miao thinks that her husband is kind-hearted and good to her. Even if he doesn’t have much money, the two of them can live a happy life. Ye Miao does not have high requirements for food and clothing, and she usually dresses in a simple manner when she goes out.
is how she wears her in-laws' house. She doesn't care about her when she goes back to her parents' house, and she wears her very simple clothes. This is a sharp contrast with her sister-in-law. Her sister-in-law's family has good conditions, so she pays great attention to food and clothing, and she never wears clothes that cost less than a few hundred yuan. So every time Ye Miao, who was dressed very simply, returned to her parents' home, their parents never warmly treated her and were always cold to her. No matter whether Ye Miao returned to her parents' home or not, their parents didn't take the initiative to ask about it.
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Ye Miao's parents are very realistic. They treat rich daughter-in-law and poor daughters with two completely different attitudes. Their parents never care about how Ye Miao is doing, but their daughter-in-law is right under their noses, and they often ask their daughter-in-law about their well-being. And every day, he would ask his daughter-in-law what he wanted to eat and cook for him to eat. Sometimes when Ye Miao went back to her parents' home, her parents had no time to cook for her, and they didn't leave her to eat, but she had time to make soup for her daughter-in-law. Every day, she would make different soup for her daughter-in-law in different ways.
Parents think that they are just raising children to prevent old age. Now that their daughter-in-law's family is rich, they should of course be better for their daughter-in-law and rely on their son and daughter-in-law to retire in the future. The daughter is married to a poor son-in-law, and the daughter who was originally married could not count on her. Moreover, she married to a poor family, so there is no need to have frequent contacts. So not only did Ye Miao go back to her parents' home, they never treated her with care. Even if the in-laws' house was demolished and divided into four houses, they gave all of them to their son in one breath, and did not keep any of them for Ye Miao.
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Ye Miao asked his parents at the time: "You gave all four houses to your younger brother and sister-in-law. Now, my biological daughter does not even have the right to live in the house with . So will you not expect me to support me in the future?" The parents said: "If you don't expect a married daughter to support me, which parents will expect a married daughter to support me? The elderly care capital It should depend on your son when you come, not to mention that your husband is so poor, it is already very good that you can live a good life. I don’t need you to support me in the future. I have a son and a daughter-in-law. "
It’s okay for parents to be cold to their daughters. Now they give their son all the demolition houses, and tell their daughter in person that she doesn’t need her to support her parents in the future, and they don’t want to interact with their daughters, which is equivalent to breaking off contact with their daughters. It is impossible to say that you are not sad in your heart because you are rejected by your biological parents, but at the same time you feel relieved: if you don’t take your parents’ house, your parents are unwilling to bother yourself to support your elderly care in the future, so there will be no burden in the future and it will be very relaxed.
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Since his parents gave all the demolition houses to his younger brother, Ye Miao has cut off contact with his parents because he already understood what his parents want. He didn't understand before, and he would go back to his parents' home to take a look out of his time out of concern for his parents.But now that my parents have already said so clearly, there is no need to make things boring. However, my parents who had been out of contact for three years suddenly came to Ye Miao with their luggage one day and asked Ye Miao to support them in their old age.
It was only from the parents that my brother and sister-in-law had sold all the demolition houses and used the money to squander the house. My sister-in-law wanted to live a better life. After having the demolition house, she wanted to cash out the house and exchange it for money to spend it. When she was selling the house, her sister-in-law said, "When I got married, I didn't marry a house, we just need to live in that house. Other demolition houses are useless, so why not sell them for money to spend it." Ye Miao's parents considered that his sister-in-law's family was so rich, even if they sold the demolition house and gave the money to her sister-in-law to spend it, they would not be afraid that her sister-in-law would not be willing to give them money to support them in the future, so they agreed to the ridiculous request made by her sister-in-law.
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Ye Miao's parents think that their daughter-in-law is rich anyway, so they meet all the requirements of their daughter-in-law. They think that they will please their daughter-in-law, and in the future, their daughter-in-law will give them money to spend when they need it, and will willingly support them in their old age. But they overestimated their daughter-in-law’s sincerity to them. They treated their daughter-in-law as their biological daughter, but their daughter-in-law did not treat them as a real family.
Daughter-in-law has never been able to live a good life, but in hard life, after selling N demolition houses, the money was spent. The daughter-in-law did something that the whole family did not expect. She filed for divorce with her son because she was going to find a richer person to marry, and she said she wanted to live a better life. Ye Miao's parents thought they were good to their daughter-in-law and would be nice to them, but the older the daughter-in-law, the more she paid attention to whether her partner had money. After spending all her son's money, she quickly divorced. The daughter-in-law took the initiative to ask for a divorce, which was a huge blow to her son. After the divorce, her son was reluctant to even go to work, and she only knew how to spend her days lazily at home.
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Ye Miao's father was hospitalized after being ill, but his son was unwilling to visit the hospital. Ye Miao's mother is old and she is still trying hard to support her body and stay in front of her husband's bed to take care of her husband. But Ye Miao's mother is an old man after all, and her time and energy are not as good as that of a young man. So although she worked hard to support her husband in the hospital, she finally felt that she could not bear this kind of life. The son and daughter-in-law couldn't count on it, and at this time they thought of their daughter. Although they had angered to their daughter three years ago, saying that they did not need their daughter to support them, their daughter actually had an obligation to support them. The words she said can be ignored, but the biological daughter should support her parents in her old age, because this is also an obligation that she cannot refuse.
So three years later, the parents who had cut off contact with Ye Miao came to her again. The only purpose of finding her was to ask Ye Miao to support them. Ye Miao didn't understand why her parents suddenly thought of looking for her to support her. My parents said it well at the beginning. They expect their son and daughter-in-law to support themselves, but they do not expect her, the married daughter. The parents told their daughter sadly what they had done, hoping that their daughter could understand their difficulties and agreed to support them in their elderly care.
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disappointed them. Although my daughter did not refuse to support them in her old age, her daughter just took out 1,000 yuan and said, "I didn't get a single house for the demolition. You also said that I didn't need me to support me, but I finally have the responsibility for the elderly, but you didn't treat me very well. So now I just spend 1,000 yuan a month to support you two. I will give you this 1,000 yuan a month to support you. I will give you this 1,000 yuan a month to you. , save some money on your own."
This is not the result that parents want. They think that if their daughters are willing to support them, they can live with their daughters, but their daughters do not want to live with them, because their daughters have long been disappointed with them. Giving them 1,000 yuan a month is already the greatest kindness to them. She is just a biological daughter who is not cared for by her parents. Since her parents do not love her, she can only give her parents a little money to express her concern, and she does not have extra love to her parents.
