Text/Xiamo
01, Volume Start
Friends are a warm sun, a beam of light, or a lighthouse in the journey of life, illuminating your way forward.
On the road of life, you may not encounter "noble people", but may also consume you.
No matter who it is, there will always be moments of making friends in this world. When meeting low-quality friends, please choose "Duanshe" in time.
Zhuge Liang wrote in Memorial : "Friends with wise ministers, stay away from villains, this is why the Han Dynasty prospers in the past; be close to villains, stay away from virtuous ministers, stay away from virtuous ministers, this is why the Han Dynasty is declining in the future."
If being with friends cannot bring you positive energy, it will drag down your life, then don't give your sincerity for them. Learning to stay away from low-quality friends is a wise choice.
Especially, don’t talk to your people anymore, the cost is too high.
02. People who like to borrow money from you but never pay back
In life, people who like to borrow money from you but never pay back may slowly drag down your life.
People who like to borrow money to live for a long time often do not have a stable career and cannot endure the hardships of life. Get used to it and rely on others to live.
Whenever I encounter a problem, I don’t actively solve the problem, but like to “seek help” from the people around me.
People who have borrowed money for a long time like to enjoy life, live a mediocre life, and never rely on their own efforts to work hard. Moreover, lack of responsibility and lack of responsibility.
Becoming friends with such a person will also affect your personal development.
On the road of life, if a person always makes your difficult life worse, he cannot help you, he doesn’t care what kind of suffering you are experiencing, and he also asks you to borrow money with peace of mind, so don’t treat it as a friend anymore.
You help him when he is in trouble, but he stays in the door when you need it.
People who like to borrow money from you but never repay money will not only consume your money, but also like morally kidnapped you. If you can't be guarded against, you can break off your diplomatic relationship with you.
Don’t get close to people who like to borrow money from you, and don’t help the poor. If others cannot manage their own lives well, then don’t expect them to manage their relationship with others well.
03. People who are randomly advised to invest but have no vision
On the road of life, please stay rational and keep your money rational and stay away from those who are randomly trying to persuade you to invest.
In life, there are always some people who like to "invest" who like to provide you with ways to make money when they come into contact with you, so that you can take out some capital. After their operations, you can get high returns.
always advises you to invest, but he has not become richer because of investment. Please don’t believe it easily. Because, it may be a person without "eye", but it will easily make you fall into a scam.
Because, it is very likely that all investments will lose all your money. What you lose is tangible benefits, while others lose only a low-quality friendship with you. People like
seem to be taking you to "make money", but in fact they are plotting against you in their hearts and want to use your principal to make money.
People who advise you to "invest" and be sweet-mouthed must be vigilant. handing all the money into his hands will not only cause losses, but also make your life difficult.
There is no easy money to make on the road of life. If you want to make money, please learn to invest in yourself and improve yourself. The stronger your ability, the easier it is to make more money.
04. People who like to calculate are always slander your hearts, and they should not be looked at directly. Some people around you are shameful.
When you meet someone who likes to calculate and always slander you behind your back, you must stay away from it. because, it will bring you into a place of right and wrong, and it will also destroy your reputation and image.
Many friends are loyal, but in fact, when encountering things, they run faster than anyone else. If betrayal of a relationship can bring him some benefits, then he may do something that hurts his friends without hesitation.
People who like to calculate are used to letting others take the blame and trampling you on your feet and climbing up. They seem to be friends, but in fact they are taking advantage of you. , especially, after using it, you still like to slander people behind your back and destroy your image.
is particularly calculating. No matter big or small, it can always make you suffer some indescribable grievances. When you get along with him, he won’t care about your feelings, he will only think about whether he can gain more benefits.
See his true face clearly, and don’t be angry. Try to stay away from him as much as possible, and don’t take responsibility for him anymore, and become his “friend” he can use at will.
People are mutual. If you cannot bring positive energy to each other when you get along, ending this relationship as soon as possible is the best way to deal with it.
05. Summary
Make friends, and the future will be bright; making friends can make you fall into a low point in your life.
Sanmao said: "It's good to have one or two soulmates, so there is really no need to be too many. The joy of friends lies in the down-to-earth trust."
In this world, not everyone can call him a friend.
When you encounter a blow, you can stand by your side; when you need help, you will lend a helping hand without hesitation; understand you, support you, and wake you up when you are confused, which is the indispensable friend in life.
When you are with the right friends, you will feel that your future is bright. Moreover, they can achieve each other and bring each other a better life experience.
If you meet friends who only know how to consume you, you should be decisive and straightforward and learn to give up.
Draw a clear line with the people who consume you and distance themselves from others, so that you can live a more relaxed life and a more down-to-earth journey.
-END-
Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
