Everyone has had aspirations and yearning for a beautiful marriage, but due to many factors in life, more and more young people are beginning to fear marriage, and marriage seems to have become a disaster, which is deterrent. In recent years, issues such as the number of marriages in my country have continued to decrease, the average age of marriage has continued to grow, and the number of single people has increased. What exactly causes this current situation.
Why are modern young people afraid of marriage?
What is the reason for the continued decline in the number of married people in my country?
Although in most people's hearts, marriage is more of a symbol of the destination of love. But now some people have a kind of resistance to marriage, believing that marriage is the grave of love, and are afraid that the relationship between the two will fade after marriage. This is also one of the reasons why the marriage rate in society has been greatly reduced now.
1. The urging of relatives and friends has a rebellious mentality:
Perhaps there is such a type of people in life who are about to get married and have children, but they are unwilling to get married so early. As a result, many relatives and friends will keep urging you. But in fact, this kind of urging will not only not play a role in urging, but also creates a strong sense of resistance from the fat intestine. Over time, it will induce the appearance of malice .
2. The cost of marriage is getting higher and higher, making young people unable to bear the pressure:
Time is constantly developing, let alone the soaring housing prices, just the issue of dowry is not a small amount for ordinary families, and the problem of car houses may be the last straw that crushes young people. When many young people want to get into marriage, they think that they may lose their family savings due to their own marriage and even have to owe a lot of debts, young people's desire for marriage is not that great.
3. More and more unhappy marriages make young people lack a sense of security in marriage:
Our quality of life is constantly improving, but the divorce rate has remained high in recent years. No matter boys or girls, there are more or less people around them who fail in marriage, and various strange reasons for divorce make many people lack trust in marriage.
Once marriage was the best destination for love in everyone's heart, but now marriage has become a dangerous house that may collapse at any time. After two people have worked hard to get into the marriage, they may divorce for various reasons at any time.
This social situation makes young people afraid of marriage and fear of enduring the pressure in marriage, which makes their desire to get married increasingly shrink. Some people are even reluctant to get into marriage and just want to live their lives alone.
In fact, in real life, the most important factor affecting young people's desire to get married is money. When the threshold for marriage becomes higher and higher, and fewer and fewer people can pass this door, young people are certainly unwilling to step in.
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