1.
no Li Yun never expected that when she asked for divorce from Gao Kai with grievance, she would make her family feel that she was picking on the bones in the eggs - looking for trouble if she had nothing to do.
The words of relatives are like a sharp knife that pierces her heart.
"You really think you are a little girl? You will find something better without Gao Kai. Don't be too naive."
"Gao Kai is so kind to you, he has spoiled you to become less and less decent, and he keeps you happy only by making a fussy family and staying at home."
"A good man like Gao Kai is hard to find with a lantern, so you can be content."
...
she really doesn't understand why they all think that Gao Kai is a good man. Can a man who can make money to support his family and not have to work with his wife, even a good man?
Then who knows her suffering? The more Li Yun thought about it, the more angry he became: "I am their relative. They just helped him speak with him because they had the benefits of Gao Kai on weekdays, thus ignoring my feelings?"
This is too unfair to me! She was too lazy to argue with them because she said that they always had ten words waiting for her, they were completely talking to each other, and they would never make sense.
She was so angry that she trembled. She left her parents' home alone, went to the park to find a secluded place, and sat blankly for a long time until night fell.
2.
She and Gao Kai are college alumni. When she entered the freshman year, Gao Kai, a junior, went to pick up the freshman as a volunteer. He was impressed by the lively and cute Li Yun, and then began a passionate pursuit, giving roses and watching movies. Li Yun, who had just fallen in love, quickly couldn't stand it and accepted Gao Kai's confession.
The two fell in love step by step, got married, and had children. During the more than ten years of being with Gao Kai, Li Yun witnessed Gao Kai's success in his career with his own eyes. He continued to advance, his house became bigger and bigger, and his car became better and better. Everyone said that she married well.
At the beginning, she was often proud of her envious eyes. Indeed, she became a full-time housewife before she graduated from college and hired a nanny at home. She didn't have to do anything. She had money and spare time, which was the life that many women dreamed of.
But gradually, she found something was wrong, and Gao Kai seemed to be completely different from before. Although he was as busy as before, working, working overtime, and on business trips, Li Yun clearly felt that he was different from before. Because:
They don’t live like a couple at all.
The intimacy that couples should have is not at all.
In addition, although Gao Kai responded to her material requests as before, his heart was getting further and further away from her.
His concern for her only surface. She excitedly shared her joys, sorrows and sorrows with him, and would only wait for his reply "Oh" and "That's it!", or he was just playing with his phone and didn't notice what she said.
The topic of the two is only the child. If he doesn't talk about the child, he would rather sit and play with his phone than talk to her.
For this reason, she has never made any noise or made a fuss. She asked him if there was a situation outside? He always said: "Work has drained people, so there is no energy to think about these things."
asked again, but he simply refused to respond.
Li Yun's anger was like hitting into cotton, unable to find the outlet to vent, and she could only feel sad.
3.
Although Gao Kai repeatedly denied it, based on her intuition, she still felt that he had a situation. She had her own reasons for thinking this way:
One of them is that Gao Kai is only in his thirties and is at an energetic age, but he is not enthusiastic about that at all. Li Yun is only in her early 30s, just like a mature peach. When she walks to the roadside, she can attract passers-by to look at her, but Gao Kai can sit still. Sometimes, even if Li Yun signals him, he will refuse on the grounds of being busy. This is very abnormal!
The second is that every time he looks at his phone, as long as she looks closer, he will exit the WeChat chat page, or hurriedly press the off button on the screen.
There is another point. Gao Kai often travels on business on the grounds of work, which is suspicious enough.
But Li Yun thought about the people around Gao Kai and couldn't find out who it was because she found that she didn't know his circle.
This made her very discouraged. There was a quarrel, and she couldn't find any clues.
Later, she also figured it out that even if Gao Kai really had a situation, she was reluctant to give up the superior material conditions she had. Gao Kai made her not work in recent years and had already raising her, so she even hypnotized herself. As long as Gao Kai still had this family and children in her heart, she would not put everything on the surface, she could think that she didn't know.
But when it was late at night and she couldn't sleep alone, she felt that her life still had a long way to go. Should she continue to live like this unhappy?
despair just thinking about it.
4.
When they found out that there was a problem with their relationship, Li Yun tried hard to keep it.
She reflected on her improper behavior and tried to correct it. In order to have a common language with Gao Kai, she went to work, enrolled in classes, and improved herself.
She tried to liven up the atmosphere, trying to arouse his interests, and to do what he liked to do.
But no matter how she changes, Gao Kai is indifferent, which makes her crazy and desperate.
so, she was so disappointed that she had the idea of divorce. As a result, everyone thought she was idle and was looking for trouble.
"Gao Kai looks honest and will never do such a thing"
"He even answers his requests for his mother's family, how could he be that kind of person!"
"I have seen him work with his own eyes, and he is really busy, it's because you think too much."
"You are divorced, dragging a child, where to find someone like Gao Kai, but he is rich and talented, and he posts it one after another, and you will regret your divorce."
everyone talked to Gao Kai, persuaded her to bear it, and did not ask her why she wanted to divorce. In their opinion, the spiritual needs she pursues are really not worth mentioning than material life.
In the eyes of the world, she belongs to the kind of marriage well. If she wants too much, she is greedy.
She also felt that she should be content, but when she faced Gao Kai's cold back, she hesitated.
Everyone has different standards for marrying well. Marriage is like drinking water, and you know the warmth and coldness of others. It doesn’t matter whether others think it’s good or not. She thinks good is the most important thing, because life is what she lives by herself.
She knew very well in her heart that even though Gao Kai had no situation, the only thing she was sure of was: his feelings for her were gone.
obviously has no feelings, Gao Kai neither mentions divorce nor neglects her. This is what Li Yun cannot accept the most.
She always felt that since you love, you should love each other, and if you don’t love, you should be separated with decent feelings.
