There is no end to people's desires. Just like in the story of "Fisherman and Goldfish", the greedy old woman finally became the queen and actually asked the little goldfish to be her servant. Of course, the dream was broken, and they returned to their original life as a grass house and a broken wooden tub.
Some people are unhappy all their lives and always think that what they have is not good enough. If you have a house, you dream of having a bigger one; if you have a car, you want to change to a better one; if you have no worries about food and clothing, you also have to pursue luxury brands and pursue more high-end food.
The ups and downs of life are also a microcosm of our growth. Anyone who has experienced ups and downs knows that living in this world, most of the unsatisfactory things are experiencing the process of birth, old age, sickness and death. On the journey of life, it is inevitable that some unpredictable things will happen, and it is inevitable. Sometimes, we may have a dispute with our family over trivial matters, and sometimes we may compete with ourselves over trivial matters.
01 In life, we must learn to take a little light on
5 A thousand hectares of fertile fields only have three meals a day, and the vast building only sleeps three feet in three feet. Living healthy is the greatest happiness; understanding contentment is the source of happiness! A contented person is not how good his living conditions are, but he is not caring about it.
We will inevitably encounter some setbacks in life. When facing setbacks, we should also learn to take it lightly and not let ourselves be too worried about gains and losses. You should know that there are many things in life, and we should learn to take it lightly. You are calm and satisfied with being an ordinary person. You are not satisfied with the bad living conditions, but because you have too many desires in your heart, just like a ravine that cannot be filled. Some things do make us feel very tired when we do, but when we are dealing with these things, we should also consider whether these things will affect our quality of life. Sometimes, we may feel that getting along with our family is unpleasant. But we also need to know that sometimes there is no need to worry too much between us and our family. Sometimes these things are not what we want to see. When nothing has happened between us and our family, it is a better way to get along, so we should learn to take it lightly.
02 Be a kind person
There will always be some discordant voices around us. Some people want to hurt you by any means; some people will only hurt you with their truest side; some people don’t know how to be content, they will only hurt you in more extreme ways; some people want you to be happy and want you to be a bad person like pain. No matter what choice we make, we must learn to control ourselves, because when we make any choice, we must not forget that we are also human beings. If we are all human beings, we will have desires. Don’t be controlled and kidnapped by desires.
03 Give yourself a good mood
Life is just a few decades, and you will get old in a flash! Why bother to let yourself be sad in comparison? How can you be so happy in life? Everything is only half satisfied; why bother to let yourself be lost in comparison? Wear shoes that suit you and walk the path that suits you, just do it! There is no need to follow others' footsteps, no need to envy others' happiness, live your life steadily, and you will also have endless fun in life! When people are young, they are always prone to get angry at others because of unhappy things. And when we get old, we realize that not everyone can have a good mood. Some people may never encounter a good mood in their lifetime, while others may never encounter a good mood in their lifetime.
04 Be content with the present, cherish the present
Learn to go with the flow, it is yours, and no one can take it away; it is not yours, and it cannot be forced. Life is not easy, so why bother with it? The result of entanglement and unwillingness to get involved will only make your body unable to bear the burden and your mood plummets.When we find that everything in this world is not so beautiful, we will become more cherishing of everyone and things around us. We cannot spend our lives smoothly, so we must learn to be content and cherish everything we have now. Instead of always being too persistent and picky about things and life. learn to let go. Some things that you cannot bring in life or death are just passing clouds in the world. Why should you take them to heart? That will only add trouble to yourself, damage your health, and be anxious. That is the biggest loss .
05 Conclusion
When people reach middle age, they are not to escape, but to deal with birth, old age, sickness and death. In this process, everyone will experience many things and many troubles. For life, each of us will experience ups and downs in life. What we should do is to put all our worries behind us and fight hard. Live our life well and do what we should do!
"I don't know when the temples are already frosted, and when the face has changed." Life is short, I will grow old in a flash, live well, cherish everything I have, appreciate the scenery along the way, and don't seek trouble!
