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Mayday sang in " Like Smoke ":
When I was seven years old, I caught the cicada and thought I could catch the summer; when I was seventeen, I kissed his face and thought I could be with him forever.
The thoughts of many women do not mature with age. They still believe in love and look forward to it forever. They think that if a man says "I love you", he will never leave.
But in fact, love is two completely different things for men and women.
Women can fall in love all day and night, but men only think of this in their spare time.
So, a man can quickly withdraw, but a woman can't take it lightly.
Many women don’t understand what it means to contact yourself after a man breaks off contact with him. They even think that it is a man who changes his mind and sees the importance of this relationship clearly.
is not actually the case.
Since a man has chosen to break off contact with you, it means that you are not important to him, have no value, and are not a "prodigal son looking back" at all.
Men understand men's psychology better. Three men tell you that it is simply for these reasons to contact you after breaking off the connection.
Chen Qinghui, 31 years old, truck driver: The man and a woman broke up, and they went to her again, but they didn't find the next home.
and I grew up with my childhood. He is a typical "playboy" type and has talked about many girlfriends.
As for the girlfriend he had talked to me before, he told me several times that he wanted to break up, but he couldn't find a reason, so he kept dealing with it coldly, trying to force the woman to break up on his own initiative.
Although I think this method is not right, it is difficult to say it out. After all, it is their own business.
Not long ago, I posted a novel and they had already broken up and started to find the next development partner. I was surprised at his speed.
But a few days later, he told me again that he wanted to get back with his ex to meet his needs.
Anyway, he has not found a new development object, it may be that the person he likes doesn’t like him, and he can’t live alone, so he just wants to find his ex.
In fact, this phenomenon is common in men, and most men think this way.
When he was with his girlfriend, he felt that she did not meet his expectations and felt that he could find something better, so he used cold violence to force the woman to leave.
But after really leaving that comfortable environment, I found that the woman outside was not as easy to chase as I imagined, and maybe none of them might have been caught.
At this time, I could only look back at my ex, after all, men's physiological needs need to be met.
So, don’t have too many obsessions with men. After the disconnection, he comes to you, but only meets his needs.
Deng Junhua, 29 years old, a state-owned enterprise employee: After breaking off the connection, I look for my ex. Sometimes I really regret it because I know that my ex is the best.
people, they are always in blessings but do not know how to be blessed. They do not know how to cherish when they have them. They do not know how to be precious after they have them.
When I was in college, my girlfriend and I had a long-distance relationship. When I first started to come into contact with the world of flowers, I felt it was quite novel.
At that time, I was keen on participating in club activities and was eager to show my strength.
And my girlfriend thinks I am her whole world, treats me as the center of life, and especially likes to stick to me.
In this state of imbalance, I dislike her more and more. I think she is particularly annoying and don’t even want to reply to the message.
After a long time, she also felt my changes, and in the end she couldn't help but break up with me.
When I just broke up, I really felt relaxed and had the energy to do anything.
But later, I felt more and more empty, and my life without a girlfriend was not as beautiful as I thought.
So I turned around and asked for a reunion, and she forgave me.
Now I feel that I was in an advantageous position and was too inflated, so I didn’t cherish my girlfriend’s efforts.
Now that I think about it, I did it too much, and I think it’s very bad when I think about it.
Dai Zitong, 28 years old, musician: Most men eat "returning back" just because they are too empty and have not met anyone who takes over.
What is the mentality of a man looking back? It means that the newcomer you meet is not as good as the former, or that you have not found a suitable person at all.
My roommate’s ex-boyfriend has always been obsessed with her, but he still wanted to break up, so my roommate agreed.
roommate's ex-boyfriend also ignored her at the time. The break-up game disappeared, which made her mentality particularly collapsed.
Finally, the roommate couldn't help but agree to break up and completely cut off contact.
But about a year later, he came back to find his roommate, saying that he didn't know how to cherish it at the beginning, and asked his roommate to give him another chance.
But my roommate has been unmoved and has never agreed to get back together. He has been pestering him.
even in his circle of friends, he marketed himself into a kind of infatuated personality. Those who don’t know how affectionate he is. After
, the roommate learned from his high school classmate that his ex-boyfriend had a girlfriend at that time, but she looked very ordinary.
You see, when a man has a girlfriend, he still asks his ex-girlfriend to get back together, but because his current girlfriend is not as good as his ex-girlfriend, and there is no other reason.
So, don’t be deceived by a man. You will feel sorry for him if he says a few love words. It’s really not worth the loss.
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This shows that after the connection is broken, the man in turn takes the initiative to contact you again, which is nothing more than realistic considerations and thinks that you are the best choice at the moment.
Don’t be stupid, it’s not because he finds out how much he loves you, but because hormones are at work and want to take advantage of you again. If a man like
turns around and asks for peace, just ignore him.
A survey shows that the probability of getting back together after separation is very small, about 10%.
You should know that the three best words in life are "reunited after a long time, reunited after losing, and false alarm", but there is no word called "reconciliation as before". Reconciliation is easy, but it is really difficult to be as early as before.
Don’t have expectations for him. He is not the one who can give you happiness. Since he has been separated, he will live his own life. Loss of contact will only make you lose your dignity.
