text丨Tao Xiaojing
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During the process of falling in love, many people have asked themselves a question: Do you love the right person?
Everyone is obsessed with this problem, not because they are idle, but because they suddenly find that the feelings they get are too different from their imagination.
This difference makes everyone start to worry, fearing that they love the wrong person and fear that their passion will be let down.
In order to eliminate inner worries and to point out a clear way for their future, more and more people are starting to find answers to this question.
Although everyone is trying hard to find, not everyone has really found the answer, because many people have found the wrong direction from the beginning.
Want to know if you love the right person, it is actually very simple. You only need to pay attention to some details during the chat to find the answer.
In order to enhance understanding and cultivate feelings, lovers often chat, some face-to-face, and some on the Internet.
No matter what way the chat is unfolded, some clues will be left in the details. Observe these details during chatting and you will know whether you love the right person.
Tone during chatting
Whether it is face-to-face chat or chatting with mobile software, you can judge whether you have someone you love through a person's tone.
chatted on the mobile software. Although he could not hear the other party's voice, the words he sent could convey his tone.
The text itself has no tone, but as long as punctuation marks or expressions are added, the tone will be very obvious.
For example, exclamation mark means strong tone, ellipsis means speechless. You just need to analyze carefully to know what his tone is.
When chatting face to face, you can tell what a person's tone is like, listening to the voice and expression.
If you love the right person, no matter when you chat, what you feel is a good tone. Even if he is in a bad mood, he still speaks to you very well.
But if you love the wrong person, then you feel the tone, either you are arrogant and impatient, or you are perfunctory and careless.
The difference in tone is very obvious whether you love the right person. Pay more attention to the other person's tone when chatting, and the answer is clear at a glance.
The status of chatting
What kind of state will a person chat with you often depend on his feelings for you.
When the person who loves you chats with you, his condition is positive. Even if he has other things to be busy with, he will not be perfunctory to you.
When someone who doesn’t love you chats with you, his state is absent-minded. Many times, he is not even listening to you, but playing with his phone.
A person is in a bad state once or twice occasionally, maybe because he is in a bad mood or thinking about other things. But if he is in a bad state every time, it means he really doesn't love you.
Chat status is actually very easy to see, even through the screen of your phone, you can discover something.
A person doesn’t reply for a long time, but it can be seen that he doesn’t want to chat with you at all. How could he love you in such a state?
The different chat state reflects different feelings. By observing this detail, you will know whether you love this person.
Chat duration
Although there is no specified duration, there is also a difference.
When you chat with someone who loves you, you will find that there seems to be endless things between you. You have been chatting for a long time, but you still haven't talked enough.
He never takes the initiative to end the topic. Sometimes even you don’t want to talk, and he is still talking nonstop.
People who love you have endless things to say to you, but people who don’t love you are the opposite.
When you chat with someone who doesn’t love you, you will find that you can’t continue chatting at all. For example, he did not clearly state that he didn’t want to talk to you, but he has been shortening the length of the chat.
No matter what topic you choose, he doesn't seem to be interested. Even if you haven't finished speaking, he has no desire to continue listening.
's different performance clearly reflects whether a person loves you or does not love you, and you can't tell whether he or she is not clear.
Want to know if you love the right person, look at the length of chat between you, this detail will tell you the answer.
Xiaojing's emotional summary:
Love and not love are actually in the details. Some people may love you very much on the surface, but if you look closely at the details, you will find that everything is fake.
Fellowship is very disguised, especially when you look at it with the filter of love, it is easier to make wrong judgments.
When facing feelings, you can lack reason, but you cannot ignore the details, especially the details during chatting.
You need to know that some details during chatting will tell you whether you love the right person.
Love or not has been shown through details. If you want to know the answer, then be careful.
Once you find that you love the wrong person, please correct your mistakes as soon as possible and stop being obsessed.
