Text/Mu Ying Gongzi
Many men believe that women are not obsessed with themselves, but rather obsessed with others. In the final analysis, it is because they have no money. Indeed, some women are obsessed with men because of their wealth. However, there are also women who follow men without regrets even if they are penniless.
Wang Baochuan For Xue Pinggui , he waited for the cold kiln for decades and lived by digging wild vegetables. She obviously has the choice to live a better life without waiting. Although Xue Pinggui was betrayal, he became the king in Xiliang and forgot his first wife. But since Xue Pinggui can be the king, it means that he has certain strength. Wang Baochuan also held Xue Pinggui to make a name for himself and took over the idea of leaving the cold kiln, so she kept waiting.
Or, it can be said that Wang Baochuan has always believed that Xue Pinggui is a potential stock, and it has nothing to do with the poverty in front of him. This directly proves that whether a woman loves a man or not, is money really not a decisive factor in whether she is obsessed with a man.
Many emotional cases have also proved that in fact, in addition to money, men with the following two characteristics will make women more obsessed.
1: Good character
Having proud wealth is not necessarily a good thing. Some people are unkind to be rich and rely on the wealth in their hands to do all the bad things. Such a man is not liked by women even if he is rich.
A man with a good character often has correct views and attitudes when encountering problems, acts positively in dealing with problems, and is also very responsible in the face of major issues.
In the TV series " Brave Heart ", Huo Xiaolin is a joke boy to outsiders. During the critical period of the invasion of the Ri army, Huo Xiaolin married three women in succession.
In fact, none of these three women and Huo Xiaolin were united because of love. Huo Xiaolin protected them in the name of marriage. The only woman Huo Xiaolin really loves is Brother Mei Jiu. At the end of the TV series, the two of them also devoted themselves to the anti-ri cause together.
Huo Xiaolin's upright character has won him the respect of many compatriots. Those couples who were married because of protection, looked at Huo Xiaolin as a gentleman, and gradually, they also fell in love with Huo Xiaolin.
People with good character only need to have a clear conscience and never care too much about the opinions of others. Even if they are misunderstood, they will silently clarify with their actions. Men with good character are also likely to be favored by girls. After all, women are looking for a partner for the second half of their lives. Only a man with a good character can guarantee his happiness for the second half of his life.
Men with good character will lend a helping hand in time when they meet someone who needs help. When encountering illegal acts, you will speak out bravely and protect the kindness in your heart. Every time a man like shows his character, he will always be taken into the eyes by the girls around him and sink into his heart.
2: Talented
There is a sentence that describes a person's obsession with another person: it starts with appearance, loyalty to character, and falls into talent. A talented man has a colorful soul, like a colorful turntable, attracting the women around him.
The talent here is not limited to the ease of Tang poetry and Song lyrics. Men have extraordinary expertise and can also fascinate women.
In the Korean drama " Witch Youxi ", Youxi is a wealthy daughter with an arrogant personality. In fact, under her arrogant appearance, there is a soft heart. Cai Wulong is a laughing and hilarious activist. He is addicted to cooking and is very good at cooking. Gradually, I also gained Youxi's heart with my superb cooking skills.
's superb cooking skills can be regarded as Cai Wulong's talent. Men always need to have at least one expertise that women are not good at in order to make women feel admiration for themselves.
Throughout history, many wealthy families have been obsessed with the poems of poor scholars, and in the end they would rather give up everything just to stay with the scholars for the rest of their lives.
Appearance is a person's garment, and wealth adds gold foil to his garment, but talent allows him to exude a unique temperament from the inside out.
Talented men are mostly as gentle as jade. Even if they cannot make poems in seven steps, they are humble and polite when dealing with people.When you have a disagreement with your partner, you will not speak ill of each other and fight, but calm down and communicate well to solve the problem.
There is a friend around him who is a middle school teacher. Every time I go to his house, I always feel a comfortable family atmosphere. Family members also speak softly, and when they encounter disagreements, they can always solve the problem between conversations and laughter.
Women like talented men, not only love their talents, but also consider the scenes when they live together in the future. Most talented men are amiable, which is also very beneficial to the future of children's family education.
A man, to be praised by others and has talent, this is not something that can be piled up overnight. Just like the literati in ancient times, they studied hard for more than ten years, but they still don’t know who the success or reputation has been won. Most talented men have a sense of tenacity. A man with tenacity will not give up easily when encountering problems and will try every means to solve the problems in front of him. If a man like this is a strong man, it will also be beneficial to his career development.
If a man thinks that as long as he is rich, women will always be around him. Then, when the man's wealth is gone, most women choose to leave.
The wealth that men have is full of variables. Men rely on variables to attract women, but their foundation is unstable. If a man has a good character and talent, the personal charm exudes in this way cannot be taken away by others. Such spiritual wealth can truly accompany a man throughout his life.
Women who are obsessed with men's character and talent mostly focus on women who are more inside than outside. Birds of a feather flock together. A woman a man attracts through his inner conditions must also be a woman with inner beauty. Two people with rich inner self, combined together is conducive to the longevity of the marriage.
Money is not omnipotent, and it is absolutely impossible to have no money. In real society, money is the foundation of our lives. If a man has a good character and extraordinary talent on the basis of his financial affluence, then such a man is enough to fascinate most women in marriage and love.
If a man wants to get the obsession of a woman, he must cultivate both inside and outside. Be a man who is elegant outside and gentle inside. Even if you end up not being able to hold the beauty back for various reasons. A man’s correct character will always be filled with justice and keep a positive attitude towards life. A certain expertise a man has will become a pastime for men to entertain themselves, and even a life skill that relies on for a living.
If a flower wants to get the bee to stay, it must first be fragrant. If a tree wants to get a bird's habitat, it must first be tall enough. Men work hard to improve their conditions, and women and love will come naturally.
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