I feel it's good not to get married.
More and more people seem to be less yearning for marriage.
is no longer so anxious to get married, and doesn't even feel that I must have gotten married.
When I was in my twenties, I was just quite calm than finding someone to fall in love and entering the marriage hall with the other person, and enjoying the life of being alone, and I was too lazy to know who to start with whom.
I have to say that in this era, even if you are alone, you can still live a good life.
There are many fun things on the mobile phone, and there are also various leisure projects in every city.
So, many people even put forward an idea that modern people do not need marriage at all, they think that marriage is not that good, but rather a kind of constraint. This concept has certain truths, but it is not exactly the case.
If you like someone, of course you should get married.
The world is big, there are many people, and there will be people who are very suitable for everyone, but there are too many people, but there may not be the luck to meet them.
Indeed, good love is never a good one, but that doesn’t mean that no one can meet or possess it.
There will always be some people who will be lucky. You can meet someone you like very much at a good age. You like the other person, and the other person also happens to like him. The two of them are really in line and get along well.
When we are together, we feel very happy and sweet, and we also want to walk the future path with each other.
I am lucky enough to meet such a person, so of course I don’t have to think so much. I can marry the other person directly, give the other person a ceremony, let each other become husband and wife, and form a place called home. After
, let’s live a good life together so that this happiness can continue and last for a long time.
can be with such a person, undoubtedly, one plus one will be greater than or equal to two, and the quality of life will be very good.
In the years, when love and being loved happen at the same time, we really don’t have to keep saying that getting married is meaningless. It is very necessary and a very worthwhile thing to escape marriage, give each other an identity, and make each other really a whole.
I am afraid that loneliness is not strong enough and needs marriage.
Not everyone is not afraid of loneliness. There are always people who cannot adapt to one person at all.
When there is no one around you, you will feel unbearable. When you think that the future is always unknown and all kinds of things will happen, but you can only face it alone, you will feel very scared and at a loss.
Can’t just rely on yourself, support your life, and hope that there is someone who can share the burden with you.
has this kind of thought. If you really meet someone and are willing to go there with the other party, then of course you can choose someone, form a family with the other party, and face the ups and downs of the future together.
However, this person must make a good choice. The other person is really suitable for life and can be content with marriage.
For many people, if there is no such person, they will really have no backbone and will not be able to find their own position at all. Only with such a person can they be more at ease and feel safe.
After getting married, even if the two people are not so in love, they can be loyal to each other and work hard for the future together, that can be a good thing. Even if their lives are dull and sometimes they will be a little unsatisfactory, they will still make steady progress.
No matter how the times change, there will still be people who think they should get married and think that two people will be better than one.
I haven't encountered singleness and can not get married.
In addition, if a person is very strong inside, even if he is the only one, he can manage his life well. He does not have that desire for marriage and has not met the right person. He can also consider not getting married.
Because there is no way to settle down, it is better to live alone than to force yourself to marry someone.
In addition to this situation, if a person is not willing to be bound by marriage and has no sense of responsibility, even if he gets married, he is unwilling to be responsible to his family at all. He will only do his own thing and do whatever he wants. It is best not to get married.
Otherwise, after getting married, you will feel bad, and the other party will only feel very painful.
Not everyone can live with one person, and not everyone is suitable for marriage.
If that marriage is destined to be a nightmare, it will only become an abyss, and there will be no happiness at all. Instead of marrying and trying it, it is better to stick to yourself directly and just be responsible for yourself.
Only by being alone will you live a more comfortable life, not delaying yourself or others.
Yes, there are always people, and one person can support the whole time. He will not feel lonely. Instead, he feels that such days are very comfortable. He can arrange their future without bothering anyone.
Does modern people still need marriage? In fact, no matter what era it is, love is worth looking forward to and marriage is worth yearning.
The key lies not in the marriage itself, but in everyone themselves.
If you want to get married, then go get married and live a good life with someone. If you don’t want to get married, then don’t get married. Just be alone.
Getting married will bring happiness, troubles of getting married, one person will feel comfortable, and one person will have a dilemma. There will be some better places in
, and there will be some not so good places.
Make the choice you want based on your situation, and after that, be responsible for your choices. Don’t always envy another possibility, don’t always feel regretful, that’s fine.
Life is never perfect. The key is how you want to live and live.
text/Tan Meng
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