All life and different personalities.
Some women have many friends, are good at socializing, and like to join in the fun, while some women have no friends, are used to being alone and like to be quiet and free.
Behind the seemingly lonely and cold, these 4 personality traits are hidden. Take a look, are you there?
Don't fight but won't grab
People are as pale as a chrysanthemum
1 writer Ding Mo said:
"Life is too tiring, a small part comes from survival, and a large part comes from comparison."
If a person always likes to compare with others, satisfy his vanity, and fight for the so-called victory, he will only increase his worries and live a very tiring life.
However, in life, there is such a type of woman who is open-minded in everything, does not compete or scramble, likes to be simple and let it go.
won’t envy or jealous of others just because you have nothing, but instead knows how to be content and cherish what you have.
Whether it is material, emotion, or fate, you will never be too forced. Everything will be at peace with the circumstances and will be inseparable from the world. A woman like
is as elegant as a chrysanthemum. Even in the troubles, she can still live an elegant and calm attitude.
Not floating or impetuous
Like quiet
Some women look taciturn and have a sense of alienation on their bodies, but in fact they just like quiet
Some women look taciturn and have a sense of alienation on their bodies, but in fact they just like quiet in their hearts.
doesn't like to be calculating with others, nor do they like to talk about right and wrong. Compared to others' endless talk, they are more willing to listen or do their own things quietly alone.
They are low-key, don’t want to be paid attention to, don’t like to show off, and are always in the crowd, deliberately hiding their sharpness.
In your spare time, you will withdraw from the tedious daily life, stay away from the hustle and bustle in your own heart, purify your impetuousness, and find inner peace.
They are as quiet as water, enjoying their little days quietly, not seeking grandeur, but only seeking peace of mind. This is the most comfortable lifestyle for them.
Slow-hot but affectionate
A longing for a long-term relationship
Some people say that lively people are prone to break up, while slow-hot people are most affectionate.
Most women who are slow to warm up live very cautiously and restrainedly. They are often introverted and not good at expressing their emotions. It is difficult to get familiar with others a few times when they see each other.
There are not many friends, and few people can truly enter their hearts. Although they are slow to warm up, they are very affectionate and yearn for a long-term and heart-wrenching relationship.
For them, loving someone is not an easy thing. It takes a long time to get to know each other, to be with each other.
Whether it is love or friendship, they choose to be better than nothing, but once they identify a person, they will treat each other sincerely and want to keep going. A woman like
seems to be indifferent, but actually values love, worthy of close friendship and worthy of gentleness.
Not good at socializing
Enjoy being alone
Women who like to be alone are often not good at socializing. Compared with the lively and lively drinking and false greetings, they enjoy a quiet moment of being alone.
In order to avoid embarrassment and boredom, they often refuse other people's chats or invitations to dinner parties. They would rather stay alone and not worry about any social rules.
Actively choose loneliness, live the way you like, do not care about other people's eyes, eat, read, sleep, exercise relaxedly, and enjoy the tranquility and leisure of getting along with each other every moment.
The heart is rich and strong. Even if you don’t have many friends, you know how to spoil yourself and understand yourself. They are their close friends.
A woman’s maturity and transparency is not to be good at communicating with others, but to learn to live in peace with loneliness.
May you settle yourself in your own heart, gain courage and wisdom, and meet a more free and easy self.
