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No matter men and women, as long as they become adults, they will face the trouble of money. If you have money, you will live a more relaxed life. If you don’t have money, you can only look at people’s eyes and lower your eyebrows.
So, in the adult world, the confidence in life is given by money.
If a person, especially a woman, has no money, then she must have no confidence.
If you don’t have confidence, you will be limited by people. If you don’t have confidence, you will consider other people’s feelings everywhere. If you don’t have confidence, you will be forced to cater to others. This kind of life is definitely not something that a normal person can tolerate.
It can be seen that making money is the most advanced way of living for a woman.
Perhaps, in some women's ideas, the best way for a woman to live in this life is: marry a good man and be pampered and live her life.
However, the reality is that no one can become a woman’s support in this life. Parents will grow old, husbands may change their minds, and friends will also have an alienated day. The only person you can rely on is yourself.
So, when you were still young, try to make money and take the initiative into your own hands.
You have to know that when you are financially independent, you can control your own destiny. What kind of life you want to live is completely up to you.
But if you don’t have money, then you will have to rely on others for the rest of your life. If you want to buy a lipstick, you have to keep your attitude down to the dust before you can get money.
To put it bluntly, women can satisfy themselves the sense of security they want. Why put all their expectations on others and then passively bear them?
Remember these three sentences and work hard to make money. You will find that although the work is hard, your heart is satisfied when you look at the growing bank card balance.
"Don't get princess disease without a princess life."
If you are a woman, what is your dream?
A husband who can make money? A harmonious family? Or a Hermes? Or a villa?
Seen many people on the Internet accusing "money-worshiping women". If a woman blindly pursues money, this behavior is indeed wrong.
But is it right for a woman to never pursue money? The answer is of course wrong.
A woman's attitude towards money should be the most correct thing to love it and be willing to fight for it.
"The King's Sister" Kun Ling's wedding shocked many people. Once the wedding photos were exposed, they instantly attracted everyone's discussion. People were saying, "Kun Ling really looks like a princess living in a castle."
Yes, Kunling's wedding has a magnificent castle, a beautiful crown and a long floor skirt, and a prince who came for her.
This is the wedding of many women in their dreams. For most people, she was as happy as a princess at that time.
But, does every woman have such good luck? Is every woman possible to become a princess?
The answer is: No, no!
So, as a woman, if you are not born as a princess, then don’t have this kind of dream. Without a princess’ life, don’t get princess’ disease.
You have to accept your ordinary life, then work hard, earn money, live the life you want, and become the "queen" in your world.
"The hardship of making money is a little better than the bitterness of men."
The story of Su Min, an aunt who once caused a sensation in self-driving tour, must be familiar with everyone.
She is 58 years old this year. Two years ago, after she completed her responsibilities for her family, she resolutely chose to start her own driving tour. The comments on the Internet have mixed reviews about her behavior.
Many people say that an ordinary aunt in her fifties can really do it by driving alone on the road? Self-driving tour? Where does the money come from? What should I do if I am big or small at home?
Aunt Su Min answered these questions from netizens with her own practical actions. She had done a lot of homework before officially starting her travel, including the specific usage and route of RV , and what to do after arriving at her destination.
She said, I don’t have much money, but I can use the attention of netizens to bring some goods. The things I bring are not much and not expensive, as long as I can maintain my daily expenses.
As for the size of the family, Aunt Su Min has devoted most of her life to them. There is no need to consider them in her later years. She is Su Min first, then someone’s wife, someone’s mother, someone’s grandmother...
Although her living conditions on the road are not as good as at home, the aunt is so happy. She said, "This is the life I yearn for, free and unrestrained."
It is difficult to make money, and it is hard to make money, but for Aunt Su Min, all this is not as hard as staying with her husband.
In China, widowed parenting is the norm for most traditional families. Therefore, as long as you don’t face it, you will only help your husband, and making money is not that difficult.
A woman is best to suffer the hardship of making money, rather than the hardship of men. If she suffers from men, she will end up having nothing. If she suffers from making money, you will at least make a lot of money.
"Economic freedom is real freedom." What is freedom in
? Zhang Shenfu said in "What I Think" that the essence of freedom is independence.
So, how can a person gain independence?
The easiest and most direct way is to make money. If you have money, you can be uncontrollable. If you have money, you can have the right to speak. The right to speak means independence, and independence means freedom.
Therefore, if a woman wants to get rid of the constraints of her family, get rid of the secular vision, and live the life she wants, she must realize her economic freedom as soon as possible.
With money, you don’t have to consider your husband’s face, and you don’t have to consider whether you have to sacrifice your interests and hobbies to satisfy your children’s interests and hobbies.
also doesn’t have to trap yourself between the three-point land of the kitchen, living room, and bedroom all day, let alone live a boring life like picking up your children from school and cooking at home every day.
As long as economic freedom is achieved, you will gain most of the freedom.
You can do what you want to do and go where you want to go. You don’t have to be controlled by the barrenness of reality, let alone live a life based on other people’s faces.
Time and Emotional Class:
As a woman, the most advanced way of living is to make money. After you have money, you will no longer have to stick to the wings of men, let alone beg for others with your palms.
Whenever you feel that making money is so hard, you must remind yourself that if you can’t endure the hardship of making money, then you will endure the hardship of a man, and you must always worry about being abandoned and losing the security of your life.
Whenever you fantasize about being a princess and you can get something for nothing, you should also remind yourself that instead of relying on being someone else’s princess, it is better to become stronger and become your own queen.
Jolin Tsai or Kun Ling is unsolvable, but you must know that in terms of freedom, Jolin Tsai must be ten thousand times freer than Kun Ling.
So, wake up as soon as possible, making money is the most advanced way of living for a woman.
