Is it the most painful thing to love but not live, or the most regrettable thing to separate after falling in love? Perhaps everyone has their own answer in their hearts. Meeting someone is like a flash of fire, which is endlessly beautiful; falling in love with someone is like a long night, which is unforgettable.
In fact, the entire process of love, whether one-way or two-way, is not all sweet, and is mixed with ups and downs.
Even after the lover is together, it may not be as sweet as everyone imagines. The so-called prince and princess live happily together is just a sloppy ending in a fairy tale.
But I don’t know if it is possible. When the prince and the princess are together, they will still quarrel over various things and are unhappy. But you have to know that if he tempts you like this, it is actually because he is afraid of losing you, not because he is suspicious.
First, check your phone.
This may be unbearable to many women. They think that this is a behavior of men distrust or disrespect them, which will make them very disgusted. Many women even regard this as a manifestation of men's strong desire to control, but you might as well change your thinking. I believe that many women usually check men's mobile phones, not necessarily because they really want to see the other party's WeChat chat history, not necessarily because they don't believe him.
The reason why people do this is to look at the attitude of men. If the other party takes out his mobile phone generously, everyone may not be able to see it at all, but they always hide something, which will create inexplicable doubts.
and there will be such behavior, just because I love the other person too much, I want to determine whether the other person has been loving me and whether this relationship is as stable as I imagined. The same is true for men. In fact, most men usually do not have the habit of looking at other people's mobile phones. They want to see your mobile phone just because they care about you.
When they look at their phones, they may not necessarily read various chat records. They just look at your attitude to decide whether you still love him.
Second, lying to you.
Guo He once performed a sketch with a line in it, "If you use a lie to verify a lie, you will definitely get a lie." It seems that the logical relationship is correct, but there are still many people in life doing this. I believe that some couples will have this situation, and one of them will suddenly receive a call and claim to be the other party's partner, in order to deliberately deceive the other party whether they have an ambiguous partner outside.
Maybe all lies are the same, but the whole process is similar, and the ultimate goal is the same, just to determine whether the other party already has someone else in his heart. It seems that this is a manifestation of not trusting your lover enough, but it is a common state in love. No matter how confident a person meets someone he loves deeply, he will feel that he is not good enough and worry that the other person will leave him.
In order to give yourself more sense of security, you have to prove your importance through these lies. From another perspective, this should also be a lie of kindness.
Third, pretend that someone likes themselves
This is a trick that many people like to use. In the early stage of a relationship, the relationship is not stable enough, and both men and women will feel a sense of crisis. Everyone will choose different ways to eliminate this sense of crisis. Some choose competition to reflect their value and increase their sense of crisis. The ultimate goal is to hope that lovers can love themselves more and pay more attention to themselves, so as to gain more love.
So sometimes, men will pretend that many women will like themselves and then increase their sense of crisis. In fact, if they really have ideas about other opposite sexes, they will try their best to hide these things from you. Instead, speaking publicly means he has no idea about other opposite sexes.
In fact, men who often do this are involved in this relationship, so they are worried that you don’t love him enough and that your efforts will not be rewarded accordingly. If you can understand this, don't be angry about it. Whether someone really likes him or everything is an illusion created by him, the ultimate origin is to love you.
If a person is not available, it is because he is not available; if a person cannot leave, it is because he does not want to; if a person has too many excuses for you, it is because he does not want to care.
So no matter how that person tempts you, as long as you need him every time, as long as you like, no matter how much time and energy you spend, he will try his best to do it for you, which is enough to prove that he really loves you. If a person really doesn't love you, you will find that even these temptations have disappeared. All you get is indifference. Indifference can keep you away and even make your relationship look colder than those ordinary friends.
Sometimes, in love, we must learn to be a bystander, so that you can better see whether he loves you or how much he loves you, so that you will not miss someone who truly loves you.
