Discussion is for love, the purpose is to fall in love, the way is to be in a "talk";
The rapid development of male-female relationship is mainly reflected in chat;
As the communication deepens, you will always have an inexplicable expectation for the other party;
If you can talk long night or chat frequently, over time, you will inevitably have a sense of inexplicable expectation for the other party;
Among the opposite sex, if you can talk all night long, or chat frequently, over time, you will inevitably have a sense of resentment for the other party. Dependence, even attachment;
However, if you can chat with someone, love may not necessarily arise;
If you don’t want to get too close to the opposite sex around you, or if you have no plans to interact with each other, please learn to stop at the right time;
Because, the topics and content of chat are like a "catalyst", which can make people emotional, fall into the fantasy of love, and promote the development of the relationship between two people.
If you don’t want to have any problems in your relationship, please grasp the sense of proportion in chat and don’t talk about the following 3 things in depth. This is responsibility and respect for both parties.
Don’t talk about the harm you suffered in love
Past feelings always give people unforgettable memories. The deeper the love, the more you hurt, the more unforgettable it is;
Some people even haven’t come out after a long time.
Then they will inevitably project past regrets and expectations for their lovers on other opposite sexes, and the opposite sex who are very happy with them are often considered suitable candidates.
Sometimes when two people chat, when they reach a certain level, they will talk in depth about their past emotional experiences;
For example, when men and women chat, women tell men about the hurt they have suffered in their relationship;
In order to better respond to the other party, men will evaluate this relationship. If they say it rightly, women will feel that men understand themselves very much and develop a different feeling for men;
or men also talk about their past love in order to comfort women. After the two people chat, they will feel mutual appreciation for each other, which is easy to be moved and moved.
So, when two people resonate when they talk about their love experience, they are prone to feelings, making everything uncontrollable.
If you are not interested in the other person, don’t easily expose your fragility and don’t over-care about the other person.
Don’t talk about your appreciation and concern for the other person
A man and a woman who can fall in love must see the shining points and charming points on the other person;
people often cannot withstand temptation;
If there is a opposite sex who always expresses appreciation and concern for you, then you will guess whether he likes himself;
If you want to draw a clear line between the opposite sex and show your position, don’t make an ambiguous attitude;
Even if it is Praise the other person or joke, please pay attention to the wording and measure, do not over-emotion, or frequently "show goodwill";
If you do this, the other person may decide that you are his destined lover and become dependent on you. Once you avoid the other person and delay expressing your rejection attitude, it will hurt the other person's heart and even make her hate you;
So, don't do dangerous and hurtful things;
When chatting, you should also pay attention to the way of speaking, and do not let the other person misunderstand and have hallucinations;
Only by moderate and polite chatting can we get along more harmoniously.
Don't talk about their own privacy
Our privacy will not easily tell people who are not familiar with you because it is your own secret, even your own embarrassment and disbelief;
Tell it to a opposite sex, which means that you trust and like him;
Talk two people to chat, always share joy and secrets, which means that the relationship is already extraordinary;
Talks two people, always sharing joy and secrets, which means that the relationship is already extraordinary;
If you don’t want to have too much interaction with the other party, don’t tell him your privacy and important things;
Because what a person says comes with his own demands, just like posting on WeChat Moments, it is a desire to get responses and attention from others;
Telling your privacy to the opposite sex is to create more connections with the other party, and wanting the other party to understand his strengths and weaknesses more, it is to open his heart to the other party.
is so frank, it means that the other party can deliver their worries, even help themselves, and accompany them through difficulties; the price of
does this is to make the other party misunderstand that you like him, and destroy the balance of the original relationship;
does not love the other party, ordinary relationships with the opposite sex, please don’t talk about these in depth.
People should be open-minded in love, and they should also respect the opposite sex around them;
express if you like it, and keep a sense of boundaries if you don’t like it;
has some topics that are not suitable for in-depth chats, don’t miss each other’s feelings, make each other strange and embarrassing;
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