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"You don't need to sympathize with older leftover women, they are far more casual than you think."
Recently, similar video copy has been frequently viewed online, and the central idea is nothing more than to soothe the emotions of older leftover women and promote the benefits of being single.
Is it really good to be single? The answer is yes, because every lifestyle has its corresponding advantages.
The benefits of being single are only suitable for young people, because it will gradually disappear with age. At that time, everyone will face various unexpected disadvantages.
Good words are not easy to use, but honest words are unpleasant but good words are good.
Advising people not to marry is obviously impure in their motivation, but they are deeply favored by older singles; advising people to marry is obviously a kind word, but they are deeply rejected.
This is a very strange phenomenon in contemporary society.
But no matter what, young people cannot live in self-deception. Covering their ears and stealing the bells cannot solve the problem, it will only make things worse.
Women doomed to be more harmful than good if they don’t get married, and all kinds of crises will come after the age of 35.
At that time, you will find that the short and free time of youth is exchanged for the long crisis and pain of the rest of your life.
The chic
The chic consciousness of a young man was not aware of family when he was young, because at that time everyone seemed to not need a family. On the contrary, for young people, single life is chic and free.
On the one hand, there is no bondage of marriage and a completely free emotional world.
Without marriage constraints, everyone can enjoy the emotional world freely.
If you like someone, you will be with him. If you don’t like him, you will be separated. Anyway, there is no responsibility or obligation between each other, nor is it involved in two families. Everything is free.
If the love is too painful, you will cry to a friend. After suffering for a while, you can start a new relationship.
On the other hand, if you are not a mother, you don’t have to bear any responsibility.
Women have to bear all kinds of responsibilities as mothers, thus losing their initial freedoms.
But if you don’t enter the marriage hall and have no mother, everything will become different.
She doesn’t have to make money to raise children, nor does she have to circle around the pot every day. She goes wherever she wants, does whatever she wants, doesn’t have to consider anyone, just care about her own feelings.
From these two aspects, they are really free and free at this time.
html "crisis" after the age of 635Women are single until they are 35 years old, and all kinds of crises will come to you. At that moment, everyone will see through the difficulties of life and the difficulties of life.
. Crisis in life: It is not safe to live alone
When I was young, I was single. I could share the rent with my friends, eat and drink every day, go shopping together, and watch TV series together.
As we grow older, friends have their own families, and the ending of living alone is almost inevitable.
Some people say that loneliness is the biggest punishment for people living alone. No one is waiting for you when you get home from get off work. You eat alone, watch TV alone, and even the walls reveal a cold smell.
In fact, for women living alone, loneliness is not the most terrible thing. The most terrible thing is that living alone is not safe.
As for how it is not safe, countless social cases have given everyone the best answers.
In a sense, a woman living alone is like a white rabbit walking alone in the forest, without companions and the ability to deal with beasts, and it will face various potential dangers.
As we grow older, when the old and weak body replaces the young and healthy body, the insecurity index will gradually rise.
2. Crisis at work: The law of 35
A capable woman can make a good career in the workplace no matter how old she is, but this kind of person is only a very small number after all.
Most women are ordinary people, with ordinary education, ordinary abilities, ordinary jobs, ordinary income, and all ordinary premises are that they can be replaced at any time.
When young women can find a job casually, but as they get older, they can't escape the midlife crisis.
From the perspective of age, the company prefers young employees, who are at risk of being fired at any time, and it is difficult to find another job after losing their jobs.
From a personal matter, a woman who is over 35 years old and has not been married and has no children will inevitably be discriminated against in the workplace.
The employer naturally thinks that she will get married, and once she gets married, she will have children immediately because she can't wait for age.
Based on the above, many companies will bypass them and focus on young people, which can avoid many problems.
3. Crisis in marriage: low chance of marriage
If a woman is a celibate who insists on being ungrateful, then she does not have to encounter a crisis in marriage, because she never thought of entering the palace of marriage.
But if she still has expectations for marriage, then this matter will become particularly difficult.
Once a woman is over 35 years old, the chance of finding a suitable partner is very low. If you are over 40 years old, even if you have superior conditions, it will not be an advantage in front of men.
When it comes to that time, it will be really a very difficult thing.
Women are not married and infertile, which is an experience of "sweet first and bitter"
Many people on the Internet habitually attribute all kinds of misfortunes in life to marriage. They think that as long as they don't get married, they can escape most of the disasters in life and thus have a free and easy life.
Little do you know that the disasters in life are like the path that everyone must take. No matter how you forgive, you will eventually have to experience it.
You think marriage is full of ups and downs, but in fact, the ups and downs of not getting married and infertile are far better than marriage, but you just don’t understand it very much at the moment.
Many people don’t understand why people get married. In fact, the true meaning of marriage is not to pass on the family line, but to meet the instinctive needs of the group animals.
Humans and animals have many similarities. In order to survive better and to reduce the existence of dangers and disasters, everyone must have their own team.
Wolves have wolves, lions have lions, and humans must have their own family.
It is a very pitiful thing for a person to live alone in this world without a family.
Not only has to face the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the world alone, but she also has to bear all difficulties and risks alone.
The most important thing is that she will also face various dangers.
Women can be free for 10 years without getting married, and the rest of the long years will be spent in anxiety and crisis.
At that time, you may regret your choice, but it is too late.
I am Ying'er, an original creator who focuses on the field of emotions.
