When I was chatting with my friend last night, my friend said that his mother had surgery tomorrow. I only told her today that I had secretly grabbed Chinese medicine for a while before, but it was useless. Now I have to undergo surgery before telling her that she was very angry and helpless.
My friend is the eldest daughter of the family, and she also has a sister and a younger brother at home. She has been studying in this province at that time and finally stayed in this province. Her parents basically worked outside since they were young. When they were studying, they basically went to workplaces in other places during the summer vacation. During the winter vacation, their parents would come back home to spend the New Year together for a while.
used to basically contact me by phone, but now I rely on video. I videotape with my mother every week, but I didn’t even notice anything unusual from it. I feel so powerless when I grow up.
The current situation is that I know my mother is going to have surgery. I am local and my mother is in another place. I happened to be busy recently. Recently, the company's new manufacturer was on her side. Then the day after tomorrow I invited many partners to have dinner. I had no way to take care of my mother's side. I felt that I was doing it too badly.
Mom and dad are the same as if they don’t say anything, but they will delay it until the end, or have happened, and they will only know from other people later, and they are really angry and helpless.
is angry that they always don’t say anything and always bear it by themselves. Unfortunately, they cannot take care of them when they grow up. They still cannot take good care of them when they grow up. In the past, they can do a lot of things when they grow up, so they can be with them and take good care of them. Now they realize that they can’t do it.
clearly has video calls every week, but no clues are found.
"The life I grew up is too helpless, and the adult world is not fun at all."
"Their experiences are the same in their generation, and so are my parents. My mother and my father didn't tell me about something two years ago. It was still my father and my mother who missed each other later. It was only when my father and my mother missed each other. It was really annoying and helpless, but the reality is that we are now. We can't say that we can take on everything with all our strength, so we can only work hard to change the current situation."
Maybe many parents are afraid that we will not live well outside, and they are always worried about us. We children will also worry about them, but they always regard us as children, thinking that we can take care of ourselves, and they can take care of ourselves and don't want us to worry or worry, so they always bear the matter by themselves and don't think about telling us.
All we can do is to greet them more often, and then build a certain foundation for them, tell them that we can also take on the responsibilities we deserve when we grow up, so that they believe that we can do things well, and that they may tell us only if they have something to do.
also hopes that they can support us young and we can support them old.
