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01, Volume Start
Business love is like playing table tennis, you will be intimate and evenly matched.
If, in love, one party makes excessive contributions, violating the "you come and I go" rule, and the other party no longer gives, then the two people will go further and further.
A woman who is trapped in love hopes to be with her lover for a long time. For this reason, it is easy to make excessive efforts and desire to gain the true heart of a man.
In fact, the more a woman gives, the easier it is to break the balance of love, and instead of getting the true heart of a man.
Women who truly know how to manage love will not be overly proactive or over-paying, but will know how to guide men to give, guide men to assume responsibility and express love at the right time.
Women, the less proactive the following moments, the more men care about you.
02. When the relationship is not deep, don’t take the initiative to post it and please
When love is just beginning to sprout, if a man only has a good impression of you, please don’t give too much.
When the relationship is not developed deeply, the woman is too pleased, takes the initiative to pay, and pays too much. In fact, it will not increase the man's favorability for her. Instead, it will make him feel from the bottom of his heart that the woman's efforts are very cheap.
Mo Lan and Liang Han in " Know ", the two of them are in the horse court and have some good feelings for each other.
Molan felt from the bottom of her heart that Liang Han had deep love for her. As long as she took the initiative to attack, he could fall under her pomegranate skirt and willingly marry her.
She took the initiative to create opportunities and had a private meeting with Liang Han, and lost her innocence too early.
Although he got married into a wealthy family as he wished, Liang Han still frequently took concubines. From the bottom of his heart, he felt that she was too casual and not noble, and he became tired of her early on.
Li Bihua said: "If he loves you, he doesn't have to please you, and if he doesn't love you, he doesn't have to."
The more anxious he is to manage a relationship, the faster it goes, the more hidden dangers it will leave.
Although the stage of love between two people is beautiful, it is easy for men to get everything, which will make men lose the motivation to pursue women and become indifferent to her.
Women, after taking the initiative to show goodwill in the early stages of love, they should learn to wait to see if men have the intention to promote the development of love. is slower, and you can see whether a man has given his sincerity.
03. When dating, do not move to the man’s residence
As love develops, when the love between two people becomes stronger, women will be appropriately reserved and men cherish her more.
When men and women are dating, there will be a process. First, they have a good impression of each other, then they try to hold hands, hug, and kiss, and then slowly develop into inseparable situations.
If a woman is too anxious in love and takes the initiative to move to a man’s residence to live, it is easy for a man to think that she is too "careless" and does not love herself.
When love burns, a truly smart woman will not let the fire of love burn too fast, but will know how to cool down.
In psychology, there is a law: the more difficult it is for a person to cherish things that are, the more he cherishes them.
In fact, this is true in the world of love.
When a man makes a request to live together, the woman can politely refuse, leaving some space for each other, so that the man can worry about her.
Women can move into men's residence early, on the one hand, they can protect themselves well; on the other hand, they can also make men treat you more kindly and cherish you.
When in love, if a woman knows how to stop at the right time, let men work harder for each other and know how to build each other's future, the probability of two people "achieve the right result".
04. No matter how deep love is, do not give up your career voluntarily
Silly women will always sacrifice excessively for love after falling in love with a man. If a man says "I support you", she will easily give up her career and work.
A truly smart woman, no matter how much she loves a man, will treat her career with her heart and keep her lifestyle.
Women should have their own lifestyle and their own career.Because career is the confidence for a woman to live.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Love him well, and then, you must live well. What keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independent."
Love someone, you must not give ten or sacrifice all your self. Women should have an independent career and still have their own dreams to pursue.
Woman, if you are excellent and shine with dazzling light, you don’t have to please men in every way, he will appreciate you and cherish you.
A wise woman, in love, does not give up her career, makes herself stronger and lives in the best posture. If you don’t rely on men, you live a brilliant life, such a woman is more popular with men.
Women, please manage your career well and don’t believe the sweet words of men saying “I support you”.
Two people are together, with the three views, the economic state is balanced, and the levels are the same, so it is easier to have a even-match relationship.
05. Summary
Women also need to pay attention to methods when managing love, don’t just give and please men.
"Intimate Relationship" writes: "Love in the right way, do not change the other person, do not compromise yourself, so that we can all love and be loved as we wish."
Woman, no matter how much you love a man, don't be too anxious when managing love and hand over all the initiative to the man.
When love develops to a certain stage, women should be calm and reserved, so that men dare not easily deal with you.
No matter how love develops, women must manage their lives well. At any time, don’t let men think you are “must be him”.
Woman, manage yourself well and give him a sense of crisis. He will know how to cherish you and care about you more.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
