There are always some people in this world who like you for no reason, there are always some people who hate you for no reason, and there are still some people who are in a neutral state.
If we focus on the person who hates you for no reason, then the information we receive every day will be troublesome.
However, if you focus on the 20% of people who like you, every day will be like a spring breeze.
There is such a story:
A teacher talked about how when he first became a teacher, there were always some students in the class who did not like his class, so he tried hard to cater to these people and wanted every classmate to like him.
But he found it wrong. No matter what they do, how they please or even please them, some students still cause trouble in class.
Later, he changed his mind and focused on the people who liked his courses. The situation changed dramatically:
The students who liked his courses gave him good feedback in class, which made him more confident in teaching. This inspires him to speak better and better.
Gradually, those who did not like the course in the past were infected by the teacher's passion and talent. The class became more and more harmonious, and people became more and more happy and sunny. In the end, they were named "Outstanding Teacher of the Year".
There are always 20% of people in the world who just hate you for no reason. If you focus on them every day, you will only be troubled.
However, if you try to focus on the 20% of people who like you, and only walk among people who understand you, every day will be like a spring breeze.
Take a walk among people who understand you, let everything happen and let nature take its course.
Sometimes, too many people are invited into life.
It is said that
we will meet 8263563 people in our life;
will greet 39778 people;
will be familiar with 3619 people;
will be close to 275 people.
But in the end, they will all be lost in the sea of people.
As time goes by, you will find that although you are waiting for the traffic light at the same intersection, there are always fewer and fewer people going in the same direction.
Those who like you will naturally like you, and those who don't like you, just let them be.
We don’t resent, don’t feel frustrated, don’t fear, we accept everything that happens, and life is calm and peaceful.
Take a walk among people who understand you and enjoy the joy.
There is a saying that goes well:
Life is actually like a road from a broad plain into a forest. On the plains, companions can walk together as a group, happily pushing back and forth and helping each other.
But once they enter the forest and the grass and thorns block the road, the situation changes. Everyone concentrates on walking their own path and looking for their own direction.
Things in the world are generally like this. Some encounters are destined, some are deeply engraved in the heart, but most people disappear in their lives in an instant.
Things in this world cannot go as they wish, and forcing them will not be sweet. You only need to do two things.
1. You can influence people who don’t understand you, but you don’t have to force them.
People who are destined to meet each other always meet at the moment when the flowers are full and the moon is full, and they understand what they should understand at the right time, neither more nor less, neither early nor late.
There are so many people in the world, as long as 1% of people understand you, it is enough. When you come together, the power will be very powerful. If you choose to be with people on the same channel, life will become very simple and happy.
2. Keep your original intention to explore and accept things you don’t understand.
Because maybe we have never been to where they are standing, and we have not seen the things they saw.
Only by never forgetting your original intention can you achieve success. Open your mind, mind, and heart, give yourself a pair of clear eyes, accept all differences, and explore with curiosity like a child.
Zhou Guoping once said that there are three times of growth in life:
The first is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world,
The second is when you find that no matter how hard you try, there is nothing you can do,
The third is when you accept your own ordinaryness and enjoy it.
Life is warmed by love and brought together by fate. When encountering some things, it is really powerless.
If someone doesn’t take you seriously, why should you humiliate yourself? If you don’t take your feelings seriously, why should you stoop and humiliate yourself?
people, never lose your dignity, leave love to those who love you, leave your heart to those who understand you, love yourself well, rather than love others humbly.
May you spend the rest of your life walking with people who understand you.
