I, a native of Fujian, unexpectedly married a 59-year-old British man while traveling in Europe. I have been married for 4 years and have not dared to see my parents. Narration: Jiang Xinrong Organized by: Mr. Xiao Han Pictures: Sourced from the Internet, infringement and deletio

I, a native of Fujian, unexpectedly married a 59-year-old British man while traveling in Europe. I have been married for 4 years and dare not see my parents.

Narrated by: Jiang Xinrong

Organized by: Mr. Xiao Han

Pictures: Sourced from the Internet, infringed and deleted

My name is Jiang Xinrong , from Nanping, Fujian, 39 years old this year. In the first half of his life, he experienced a failed marriage and the departure of his children. In the second half of his life, he lived in the UK and lived a simple and happy life. Sometimes I think about my life. Being strong is accompanied by misfortune. Maybe people with a personality like mine have to give up more after all.

I have been a top student since I was a child, and I have good looks. After all, I have been a very proud woman since I was a child, but my heart is strong but my destiny is not strong. Even though I worked hard to study, work, and manage my marriage, I still failed in the end.

4 years ago, my ex-husband left me. The reason was very simple. Because I failed to take good care of the children, the children left us forever, and I was the culprit. But what he doesn't know is that I have already discovered that he has many women outside, but I just don't want to announce it for the sake of face.

Even if we get divorced, I will not fight with him over property. If he is willing to give me, I will continue to give him. If he is not willing to give me, I will not fight.

's casual and indifferent character seems not to be popular with others. Suppressed emotions always need to be released, and my way is to travel, see the scenery along the way, and see the people in this world. I have traveled to Europe countless times, and I am familiar with it. But in 2018, I met my true love here, a British man who is 24 years older than me. His smile is very healing, and I have a kind heart, maybe I was warmed by his gentleness, or maybe I just didn’t want to go back to that sad place. On the 59th day after we met, we got married.

I was born in 1983. I have an older brother, but my relationship with my brother has been distant since childhood. The main reason is that he doesn’t like to be with me. Maybe he thinks that I have taken away the love of his parents from him. But my parents do have a preference for me, and it can be seen in everything from dressing up to snacks.

As the old saying goes, daughters should be raised rich and sons should be raised poor. This is clearly reflected in our family.

I have been a very competitive person since I was a child, especially in studies. As long as my test scores are not satisfactory, I will be too anxious to sleep. My parents also see my willpower, so they have cultivated my ability to withstand stress since I was a child. Ability, but she is a girl after all. She can indeed be strong in many things, but emotionally she is always fragile.

When I was a child, my academic performance was basically the first in the class and the top ten in the school. I was also very successful in my studies. Later, I was admitted to university and had a vigorous relationship. Finally, I entered the university the second year after graduation. marriage.

Marriage also has advantages, that is, my children have grown up and I am still young; but there are also misfortunes. When my son was 11 years old, he accidentally drowned while playing in the water with his friends. This is a lifelong pain for me. Even now, It’s also hard to get out. Originally, the relationship between my ex-husband and I had a rift in the seventh year. He always stayed up at night citing busy work. It is true that he often travels on business, which I can understand.

But later I found out that he had had affairs with several women, and I was very sad. But I am a person with a good face, and I don’t want to tell this scandal to my parents, let alone anyone else, so I can only keep it in my heart. As time goes by, I slowly feel hopeless about my marriage.

After my son left, my relationship with my ex-husband completely broke down. He believed that all this was caused by me and that I failed to take good care of my son, which led to this tragic ending. To be honest, I admit that I am not a good mother and am too concerned about my son going out to play alone. But is this kind of accident what I want to see?

later got divorced amidst constant quarrels. In the two weeks before we were about to apply for the certificate, we got along pretty well. Maybe he felt that he would be free soon, and he must be secretly glad in his heart.

After the divorce, I spent more than half a year with difficulty. I quit my job and prepared to live for myself for a few days, so I went to Europe for a trip. Before, my son accompanied me, but this time I was alone. When I arrived in the UK, I rented an apartment and prepared to recuperate physically and mentally for a while. However, at this time, I met my current husband, John.

He is 24 years older than me. When we met, he was already 59 years old, but he was in good health and open-minded. He seemed to see the world very clearly, and he constantly and gently guided me to get out of the past and start a new life. .

He gave me self-confidence, and in his way, my life became more and more comfortable and relaxed, and finally, one very nice night, while we had a candlelight dinner, John proposed to me. At that moment, I didn’t know whether it was because I was moved or because I wanted to have something to rely on, but I agreed to John’s proposal.

In less than two months, John and I registered to get married.

But I understand that my parents will definitely not accept my new relationship. After all, John is the same age as my father, and my parents are very traditional people, so I have been hiding it for the past few years. Because of the epidemic, This gave me a reason not to return to China. My parents were actually worried about me being in a foreign country every day. I really didn’t know how I would face my parents in the future.

Sometimes I think about whether my marriage is right or wrong? Although John is kind to me, the age gap is too big after all, and he is very stingy and cautious financially. Sometimes I feel that it is meaningless to live like this, but then I think about it, I was able to get out of my grief only with the help of John. Slowly, I became that tangled woman again, not knowing how to choose.