I think in a relationship, whoever takes the initiative loses.
Instead, I take the initiative because I am brave and dare to express myself. And if the other party never responds to me, then one day I will put away my initiative and turn around.
I take the initiative because I like it, so I am also willing to pay in the relationship. As for whether there will be a good result, it is beyond my control.
But as long as I work hard, I have no regrets.
In relationships, remember to put your own feelings first.
Just because I take the initiative to find you does not mean that I am just licking. It is because I want to find you and I respect my own feelings.
Of course, if I get hurt, I will never look for you again. This is not because I am trying to be brave, but because I know how to take care of myself.
The best mentality in love is to feel that love is important, but it is not that important.
The focus of life should still be on yourself. When you revolve around the other person all day long, you have no time to improve yourself, and therefore you have no way to provide the other person with a continuous sense of value.
Just imagine if there is a person who doesn’t know how to make progress and is around you all day long to extract value from you, how could you not feel bored? Even if you are not bored, what further communication and interaction can you have over time.
And when you put the focus on yourself, even if the other person is hot and cold, it won't affect you too much.
And you will often be surprised to find that when you reduce the importance of love, instead of leaving you, love will become better and better.
Feelings are a matter of doing your best and obeying fate.
The best mentality is that I have worked hard and tried my best to do what I can. As for whether you will respond to me, that is your business. This is beyond my control.
The only thing I can control is myself, so I just want to have a clear conscience and no regrets.
Follow Mr. Waijuan and grow together for life.
