The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult to get along since ancient times, but the mother-in-law interrupted her daughter-in-law ear bone I heard it for the first time!
What kind of grievances made the 70-year-old mother-in-law treat her daughter-in-law?
When the wife and mother are shopping together! Where should my husband stand? How to deal with it?
This issue brings you a true story of a woman who has been married to her husband for three years and has a son, but was rejected by her mother-in-law and combined with sticks.
Lei Feng's ear bone was interrupted by his 70-year-old mother-in-law, and the wound was shocking. It is not difficult to imagine how intense the quarrel was at that time.
Lei Feng said that her mother-in-law was smashing a pole directly on her head. A look that doesn't share the sky with himself.
So why does a 70-year-old mother-in-law treat her daughter-in-law this way? What is the reason for the two people to quarrel?
Lei Feng said that her husband Zhang Yong usually does business in the town, so the family’s farm work falls on her mother-in-law and Lei Feng. Lei Feng’s family sees her doing farm work very hard. I helped her take the rice and peanuts home to dry, but the mother-in-law mistakenly thought that Lei Feng was doing good for her family, so she gave her a heavy hand! But is the truth of the matter really just because of such a small matter?
When the wife and mother have a dispute, where is Zhang Yong as a son and husband? Through Zhang Yong's mouth, we learned that his mother had already gone to bed and rested that day, but his wife kept verbalizing like a demon. He really couldn't listen to it, so he took the child out to avoid him, but he didn't expect that soon after he left, his mother and his wife would get into a ball.
In Zhang Yong's view, all the conflicts in the family were caused by his wife Lei Feng. Zhang Yong said that his wife had not done any housework in the three years of marriage. Almost everything in the family rests on him. He has never asked his wife to do anything. It can be said to be endless tolerance for his wife, but this kind of endless tolerance has resulted in Lei Feng's changes intensified.
And Lei Feng faced such a generous husband, why did she stir up so many incidents? What is hidden behind this incident?
It turned out that Zhang Yong's father had passed away for many years and his younger brother had not yet married, so his mother had been living with them. Lei Feng was already dissatisfied with living with her mother-in-law and supporting her mother-in-law, that her husband Zhang Yong was taking care of this matter.
This incident made Lei Feng more determined to move out and live separately with her mother-in-law. Zhang Yong was ambiguous about Lei Feng's request to move out, with his mother on one side and his wife on the other. In the middle, he is in a dilemma to help no one. He only wanted his wife and mother to get along with each other, but it backfired. Seeing her husband's attitude, Lei Feng suddenly asked for a divorce. Zhang Yong is very helpless when his wife gets divorced at every turn. He knew that living with his mother would make his wife wronged, but he couldn't do it if he left his 70-year-old mother!
As for the daughter-in-law, Zhang Yong’s mother said that her son’s family is not wealthy. She usually runs a small business in the town, and she and her daughter-in-law Lei Feng are the only ones left at home. In order not to be rejected, 70-year-old She started farming to subsidize her mother-in-law, but her daughter-in-law did not do any housework under the pretext of taking care of the children, which made her really intolerable. Facing the 70-year-old mother-in-law who has to work hard to do farm work, Lei Feng was not moved at all. He couldn't even understand that the mother-in-law's labor was to reduce the burden on the family.
Father Lei Guozheng is also angry at his daughter. He said that his daughter was inherently stubborn and even his father ignored him and ignored his own teachings. Angry and angry, but for the sake of his daughter, Lei Guozheng still said that although Lei Feng and her mother-in-law had many conflicts, after all, it was her husband Zhang Yong who accompanied Lei Feng, not her mother-in-law, so he still persuaded his daughter to go back...
After negotiation, they finally decided to move to Zhang Yong's uncle and leave a house within the year after his uncle passed away. It was less than two hundred meters away from home. During this time, Lei Feng took the children to live in her natal home. a period of time. Seeing that their parents are about to be separated, the three-year-old son is trying to stay...
Every family has difficult sutras, the most difficult one is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law has the principle of daughter-in-law, and mother-in-law has the principle of mother-in-law. Only when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live separately can we better respect each other as guests.
If it were you, would you be willing to live with your mother-in-law?
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