Text/Mu Ying Gongzi
Xiaoqing is a kind-hearted girl. No matter who encounters difficulties on weekdays, as long as she can help, she will never stand idly by and treats newcomers in the company very well.
The new front desk Xiaoqian and Xiaoqing are alumni, and their family conditions are not particularly good, so Xiaoqing is particularly good to Xiaoqian. Not only is he a serious and responsible teacher at work, he is also very attentive in life.
Xiaoqing often brings a cup for Xiaoqian when buying afternoon tea. In order not to hurt Xiaoqian's self-esteem, Xiaoqing will say that it is a buy one free one or a second cup at half price. When it’s Xiaoqian’s turn to treat her, Xiaoqing will choose a very cheap roadside stall to save money for Xiaoqian.
People in the company say that Xiaoqing completely treats Xiaoqian as his own sister, but Xiaoqian seems to have no gratitude to Xiaoqing at all, and even jokes with other colleagues that Xiaoqing is stupid and has a lot of money.
Xiaoqing was very sad when she heard Xiaoqian say this, because she was originally from poor, and seeing Xiaoqian was as if she had seen her back then, she really wanted to help her and give her some warmth. Although she never thought of Xiaoqian to repay her kindness, she did not expect Xiaoqian to treat her like this.
This made Xiaoqing begin to reflect on whether he had done something wrong and whether he should not be too good to others. In fact, there is nothing wrong with being good to others. What is wrong is that some people should not be good to them, and it is really not worth it.
1: People who don’t know how to be grateful
In our real life, people like Xiaoqian are people who don’t know how to be grateful. Such people will naturally accept the good things others are to them, but will never be grateful to others. No matter how good the other person is to him, he will not lend a helping hand when the other person needs help.
Wu Qian in the TV series " People in the World" is the wife of Xiao Guoqing, Zhou Bingkun's good friend. She originally worked in a hotel and worked very hard. After Zhou Bingkun opened a bookstore, he saw that Xiao Guoqing's family was in a difficult situation, so he asked Wu Qian to work in his own bookstore. It was not only easy and decent, but also earned more than in the hotel.
Later, after Zhou Bingkun bought the house himself, he lent his vacant old house to Wu Qian's family to live in, and did not charge rent. Although everyone is very good friends, such kindness is enough to make people feel grateful.
However, it was not. When Zhou Bingkun encountered difficulties and planned to sell the house and moved back to the old house, Wu Qian not only refused to move out, but also scolded her husband and children in front of Zhou Bingkun, and even said that Zhou Bingkun, who was also in trouble, was forcing them to death.
If Wu Qian is a person who knows how to be grateful, when Zhou Bingkun encounters difficulties, even if she is unable to provide help, she will feel guilty when facing someone who has helped her selflessly.
is like the lyrics in a song, "I am moved by the sky and the earth, why can't I touch you?" Some people's hearts are a hard stubborn stone. No matter how you treat him, you can't warm up this stone. Not only does it not need to treat such people well, but it is best to be farther away, the better.
2: People with strong jealous
Jasmine and Beibei are college classmates. They are in the same major and live in the same dormitory. They have a very good relationship. They go to classes, eat together, and go shopping together, and are almost inseparable.
Later, after Jasmine had a boyfriend, she spent much less time with Beibei, but Jasmine cared for Beibei at all. Jasmine would often help Beibei to tutor her homework, and would bring delicious food and fun to Beibei when she went out on dates with her boyfriend.
Seeing that Jasmine has achieved both love and academic success, Beibei, as a good friend, should have been happy for Jasmine, but Beibei is too jealous. She feels that her own conditions are much better than Jasmine, but now she is not as good as Jasmine in all aspects.
Therefore, Beibei still maintains a good friend relationship with Moli on the surface, but she made many small moves behind her back. Just when they were about to graduate, Beibei, who was blinded by jealousy, secretly deleted the graduation thesis on Jasmine's computer while Moli was not in the dormitory. Fortunately, Moli sent her to her senior sister in advance to help guide the thesis. The senior sister had a backup on her computer, and Moli graduated successfully.
People with strong jealousness are easily blinded by jealousy. As long as you live better than them, they will feel resentful and feel that the world is unfair. No matter how you treat them well, it is difficult to awaken their conscience. Such people are really not worthy of being good to them.
3: People with extreme thoughts
People with extreme thoughts are often self-centered. They are self-centered in everything and rarely follow others' opinions. They never consider other people's feelings when they think they are right.
A case about the four sons of Nanzhou in the popular TV series "The Strange Things of the Tang Dynasty" was caused by the murderer's thoughts being too extreme. The main characters in the case Yan Yuanfu, Zhong Boqi, Lu Gongfu and Leng Ji were all talented people in Nanzhou. The four had a good personal relationship and were called the four sons of Nanzhou.
But Yan Yuanfu and Lu Gongfu, among the four, died mysteriously one after another. What's more coincidental is that the other people in the same deck named "Stone Bridge Picture" with the four people also lost their lives.
Everyone felt that this matter was very strange and speculated that who committed the crime. After some investigation, the truth finally came to light. But what everyone did not expect was that the murderer was not someone else, but Zhong Boqi, one of the four sons of Nanzhou. The reason why he would do this was simply because his doctor's skills were not superb enough, and he diagnosed the cough disease he suffered as a terminal illness, saying that he had not had much time left.
Zhong Boqi was afraid that he would be lonely after his death, so he wanted to kill a few good brothers to accompany him, and he would murder the other people in the painting, just to present the painting perfectly after his death.
Zhong Boqi just took care of the wishes and lives of his close friends for his so-called perfection and murdered them at will. It is already full of risks to interact with such people, and it is meaningless to be good to them.
People will meet all kinds of people in their lifetime, but the most terrifying among these people are not those two-faced villains, nor are they so-called bad people who do evil, but these three types of people.
People who don’t know how to be grateful, people who are jealous and people with extreme thoughts, these three types of people will not be grateful for their kindness to them, and they are not worthy of your kindness to them.
So, you must keep your eyes open for the rest of your life, pay attention to the people around you, stay away from the above people, and don’t be nice to them anymore. It’s really not worth it.
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