When two people chat together, they can't continue the conversation. Sometimes it's not the fault of the topic, but the difference in the rhythm of the two people's chat.
This thing is like eating, you and your sister both like to eat hot pot, and the two of you have a contract.
After ordering, as soon as the dish is served, you pour it into the pot and die. Ten minutes later, you hiccup contentedly.
Look at the girl again, she is eating and slowly, only when I ask, I know that she ate 2 leaves and 3 pieces of meat.
can't do it, you just sit there and watch the girls eat. But people are not familiar with you again, and seeing you like this is really frustrating, so I don't feel in the mood to eat, saying that I'm full, let's go.
Going back, you told others that you were a bit of a waste, and you didn’t finish so many dishes, but you were still very happy, and we’ll make an appointment next time.
The girl grinned when she heard it, MMP in her heart, thinking about the next time, my mother and your surname.
In fact, chat rhythm is such a thing, you only need to do the following 4 how to get it.
- How to start and end chat with ?
- How to grasp the frequency of replying to information ? How does
- connect to topics? How does
- reply to what girls say?
Next, let's talk in detail, how to do these four.
How to start and end the chat?
Boys are easy to struggle with how to start the chat, that is, the opening remarks of the chat.
Actually, that is not necessary at all. The opening remark of is a chat switch. If you press it vigorously or press it lightly, the result will be the same, that is, turn on the light. .
So you really don't have to worry about how to say the opening remarks, girls will definitely not fall in love with you just because of your opening remarks.
As for how to end the chat, many boys have a habit of waiting for girls to speak. As long as girls don't say anything, they won't think about ending it.
My suggestion is that every time you can't talk anymore, there is no need to bite the bullet and tell the girl directly that you have something to do to avoid embarrassing chatting.
How to grasp the frequency of replying messages?
Many boys and girls chat, just keep their eyes on the mobile phone, for fear that the other party will send a message and not see it, so they cannot seconds to reply to .
However, this concern seems extremely cheap in the eyes of girls. Because in her opinion, is a person who can reply to her all the time, either doing nothing , or licking dogs doing nothing. What should I do with
? , you just need to remember the principle of time equivalence , that is, how long does it take for a girl to reply to you in , you will reply to her in about the same time , for example, if a girl replies to you once every ten minutes, then you can wait ten minutes Get back to her, even longer. How to connect
topic?
topic connection is a test of a person's observation and emotional intelligence. When chatting, you must judge by the girl's facial expressions or text whether she is interested in the current topic..
If you don't think she's interested in the topic, then you'll have to find a way to change the subject.
If you think she is still very interested in this topic, then you can continue to chat with her. To the extent of the chat, you will connect to the next topic to ensure that your chat can continue.
If a girl just bought a dress, you say it looks good, and she replies to you, I also think I have a good eye, what would you say?
"Yes, yes, I think so too, you have a good eye"
If you reply like this, then you can talk a few more words at most, the girls won't want to talk anymore, so what can we do?
"Your vision is really good, I will find a girlfriend who has the same vision as you in the future." Attitudes will change.
How to reply to a girl's words?
This is the top priority of the chat rhythm. Many boys will chat to death because of this.
If the answer is not good, the girls will not be interested, and naturally they will not chat with you. This happens in
because boys care too much about girls, so what the girls say, he will chat down, and unknowingly fall into the rhythm of girls and become .
In the rhythm of a girl, she is the real Queen. No matter what you say, it will not stir her emotions, she will not be surprised, is unexpected .
I have a question for you, if a girl tells you that she is tanned, how would you reply?
I think you will probably ask her to put on more sunscreen, or explain to her that you are not black, but rather white ,Right? I can guess it, and even more so for girls.
Since you already know what you're getting back, it doesn't make much sense. The girl will not talk to you again after she gets back to you.
But if you reply to her at this time,
"The next time we meet, will you get a passport from a certain country in Africa?"
guarantees that she will be interested again, and Barabara will chat with you endlessly.
[Written at the end]
Regarding the rhythm of chatting, the most important thing is not to fall into the rhythm of the other party, try to let her adapt to your rhythm, so that she will be more cooperative when chatting, learn remember points "Like".
