As the saying goes: There is no impermeable wall in the world, no matter how well you hide, one day you will be exposed, especially shameful scandals.
But there are indeed some people who are lucky. They have had an affair for many years without being discovered, and can continue to maintain it for many years. How did they do it? Let us listen to their narrative.
Ms. Wang's self-report:
I had an extramarital affair for five years. My husband and I met when we were at work. At that time, we had a conflict with my father and were in a bad mood. My husband kept comforting me and taking care of me. I helped me when I was most helpless. I married him because I was moved.
He has no money and no decent job. What is more than 5000 yuan a month? The house was allocated for the demolition of his family. Without a car, the bride price would not be taken out. After the baby was born, the cost became more and more expensive. I really couldn't bear it. But I had no choice but to leave the baby to my mother-in-law and go to work in another place alone. Those who work overtime every day can't make a lot of money. If you encounter difficulties, you have to carry it yourself. By chance, I met a man who not only helped me find a good job, but also gave me financial help. I didn't sneak in either, so I told my husband that my colleague took care of me. Don't think about it, he really believed it.
But again, what if I don’t believe it? He can't do without me, can he divorce me? Up to now, he has been very good to me, and he will often come to my house to buy toys for children. My husband never asks. I guess he knows a little bit.
Ms. He said:
I had an extramarital affair for nine years. My husband and I met online. At that time, I just broke up with my first love and I was in a bad mood. After chatting for a few months, I felt that the other person was pretty good and honest, so we met. We got married before long. He didn’t have anything in his family. My parents bought the house, and the job was also based on my father’s relationship. A typical Phoenix male. Only after marriage did I realize that marrying a man really needs to keep his eyes open. When he needs to show up, he can hide and hide without expectation at all.
Fortunately, I met him and let me experience what true love is. As for why it was not discovered by my husband, I told my lover, don’t give it lightly I called and, just to be safe, I bought two cards and contacted him alone, so I was never found.
Ms. Fei’s self-report:
Extramarital affairs for 10 years, my husband is a very considerate person. In 11 years, he heard that the foreskin is not good for women, so he secretly went for surgery. The life of the husband and wife is not harmonious, and in the end it is gone. I also thought about divorce, but the pressure of divorce is too great. After all, we still have a child. But I was a normal woman. I was less than 30 years old that year.
To be honest, I have never deliberately avoided taboos. If you can't give me what I want, then I can only find it outside. If I can't accept it, I will get divorced. After so many years, he has never asked, and often tells me that he wants to live a life with me. I know, he was afraid that no one would take care of him when he got old after the divorce, so he pretended not to know. As long as he keeps one eye open, I won't get a divorce, otherwise he will live it by himself.
Summary
The editor wants to say that it is impossible to hide things like extramarital affairs. The above three women are not very capable, but the husband deliberately does not point it. But any man with a little ability can not tolerate his wife cuckolding himself, let alone a man with a strong self-esteem.
