If a man like this is not married, who will I marry?
My parents almost vomited blood by the anger and finally agreed to the marriage. On the day of his marriage, he told me that nothing I can do in my life will not let me suffer any grievances, and I must make a personal example. Prove that the man I marry is worth. I was so excited that I couldn't sleep all night because of this sentence, and I held him and said endless things. But now it seems that I am really blind. I know people and face but not the heart!
Two years later, we had a baby, and the family, which was not wealthy, suddenly became tight. The child was just over the month, and my husband suddenly told me that he didn't want to continue to get on. He wanted to go out and make a promise he once gave me, so that the child could have a father who drove a luxury car and lived in a villa. To be honest, I was moved by his determination. He pieced together tens of thousands of yuan and took it all away for him. Before leaving, he was a little unconfident and said what if he lost all the money. I said, "If you pay, you will pay. It's no big deal. Just take it as a lesson. Besides, I still have a salary and food."
My husband was very moved and said that I was the best woman in the world. After he left, I was shameless and moved back to my parents' home. I had to go to work and take care of my children. I got up early and went to bed late, and had no help. Life was very difficult. My parents said I deserved it. So many good men didn't marry, but insisted on marrying him and suffering from suffering. I accepted it. I believed in the man I chose.
He went to Shanghai to transfer technology first, and then to buy clothing. During this period, he suffered a lot. In order to cheer him up, I often call him and send messages, and I am afraid that he will not be able to withstand the pressure and give up his efforts. If he has a good business, I will praise him as the best man. If he is frustrated, I will talk about the child and divert his attention.
I never complain about how hard and tiring it is to raise a child, and I can't distract him. During that time, the child was young and weak, and often had high fever. I almost collapsed because of the fever. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, and had weak legs when I walked. But for him to do business, I carried it alone.
Once he suddenly came back from Shanghai. It happened that my mother and I both had high fevers and were in the hospital for infusion. He cried as he watched and said that he didn't expect it to be so difficult to take care of a child. He said that he had to do a good business no matter what the sky fell, and he couldn't lie down. With his words, do I still care about suffering?
2015, my husband's business got better. He opened an online marketing company, first selling other people's products, and then began to develop and gradually grow. Now there are more than 30 people in the company. As the business got better, his mood became better, and he gradually became more domineering.
After his repeated insistence, I quit my job and brought my children to Beijing. Shortly after arriving in Shanghai, I found that he had changed. He became a little arrogant, a little arrogant and a little arrogant. I am a person who can't live a free life, and I can't get used to being a full-time housewife. My husband asked me to work in his company, but I didn't agree. I said, when I go to work in the company, it will affect his job. I would rather find a job outside, just to waste time. My husband also agrees with it, saying that there are too few understanding women like me. He also said that marrying a woman like me is the greatest happiness in his life!
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. After 2018, he went home less and less often, either working overtime, having meetings, or traveling on business trips in other places. As soon as he called, he said he was busy, and as soon as he sent a message, he said he would go back and chat.
A friend reminded me: Your husband is so rich and handsome, so you may not be thrown into the arms of other women. Although I doubted it, I still trusted him 100% and would rather believe that he was really busy than believe that he was stealing food outside. I never look through his cell phone or ask about his whereabouts. Even if he occasionally goes home, I will take care of him and be considerate of him as always. I think that even if he exchanges his heart for his heart, he shouldn't have let down the love between husband and wife for more than ten years, right? But I was very wrong.
Last summer vacation, I took my child to Sanya for a trip, hoping that my child would see the world. I gave the nanny a break for more than a week, and he doesn't come back often anyway, so it doesn't matter whether he has a nanny or not.
For more than a week in Sanya, I was in a surprisingly good mood. The sky was blue, the sea was blue, the clouds were white, and the wind was fresh. He called me and said, if it's fun, just play for a few more days, and it's been difficult to go out during the epidemic. He hasn't cared about me and my children like this for so long, and I was still very moved at that time.
When I came back from a trip, I asked him to pick him up. He said the company was busy and couldn't leave, so he asked me to take a taxi by myself. I didn't think too much about it, so I took a taxi home.
Home feels very cool, he must have been away for not long. As soon as I entered the bathroom, I found that the toilet was blocked, so I immediately called the worker to clear it. The worker stabbed the toilet for a long time, but the water was still not smooth, so he said he wanted to lift the toilet and dig it with his hands. When the worker removed the toilet, I went into the bedroom and found a few long brown hair on the pillow. My heart skipped a beat. This hair must not be mine, because I never dyed my hair, but I still told myself that I might be dazzled, and he would never do anything to sorry for me.
Back to the bathroom, I finally collapsed. The worker lifted the toilet and took out a large ball of toilet paper from it. It was wrapped in five condoms. One had used other unpacked packaging and there was a lipstick inside. The worker smiled and said to me that these things cannot be thrown into the toilet. Even if they are thrown, they cannot be wrapped in such a large ball, which will be blocked. The worker's smile was like a knife, piercing my heart.
I had a big fight with him. He begged me for forgiveness in a low voice, swearing that there would be no next time, he said he would never leave this home. I was extremely desperate. I don’t want to make trouble with him, for fear that it will have a bad impact on the child, so we separated.
I suddenly realized that if a woman bets her life’s happiness to a man, she may not be happy in the end.
He has come to me to rebuild the old one many times. I am really hesitant because there are many people pursuing me now. I really want to divorce and find someone who truly loves me. What should I do? …
The author’s comments are that loyalty in marriage is the most important. But now the divorce rate is rising steadily, which has a lot to do with extramarital affair and extramarital affair.
In order to reverse this decline, it is recommended that the country implement the pre- examination system for getting a marriage certificate. It can imitate the driving license test and deduction system.
"zero" tolerance for cheating in marriage, and we must punish them strictly like "drunk driving" and "drunk driving".
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