How many women in life do not regret it after marriage? I believe most of them will regret it, because in marriage, they have changed from little women with light eyes to their most hated resentment.
When listening to other people’s affairs, many people always have a gossip attitude, and do not hear at all, and even despise women who complain all day long.
I always feel that they have time to complain, so it is better to study hard, improve themselves, and make themselves better.
It’s a pity that as time goes by, I gradually become a resentful woman, especially after having children.
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Many women always complain that men don’t have home, and go out early and come back late every day, as if they are working hard for life, but in fact, the monthly salary is only enough to be fed and fed.
I take care of my children every day, do housework, and clean the house, but I don’t get any recognition. On the contrary, I think it's easy for me to get off. My husband thinks that taking care of my children is just playing at home, so I can't be tired of working!
Faced with a man's attitude of not caring about things, I feel like an old man when I come home every day, and I won't coax my child even if I cry. I went home early, and I wouldn’t cook rice first, let alone buy vegetables and go home.
A hands-off boss was completely dismissed and the hotel was kept. He thought that he could stay for free after giving money, and he didn't need to deal with anything else by himself.
It is precisely because of this attitude of men that women complain more and more. Taking care of children is not only about playing with him, but also about making him happy to avoid crying all the time. At the same time, it is better to distinguish the condition of his condition. It is necessary to see that he is uncomfortable in time so that he can be sent to the hospital for treatment in time to avoid minor lesions and major illnesses.
At the same time, during the time of taking care of the child, you also need to clean the house and kitchen smoke. Hair on the floor, dust on the cabinet, food debris falling from children's meals, etc., all need to be cleaned.
So women who need to get married need to take care of their children at home are so busy that they can’t even eat well. They always wake up after eating halfway through the meal and need to put down their chopsticks to coax the children. By the time I coaxed the child, the food had already become cold.
So, after marriage, women become resentful women because men do not recognize their efforts and push everything in the family to women. Let a woman with only one hand and one foot live a thousand troops!
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A woman after marriage lives a resentful woman, not only because of her own efforts, she has not won the other party’s recognition. Because I am too poor, I look at others who are so popular and drink spicy food, but I search for it myself. Over time, I will be imbalanced.
For example, women have no jobs to take care of their children, and men don’t earn much money, and their monthly salary is not enough, so they even give half or one-third of the money to their parents.
Even if a woman has been calculating carefully, she has not bought new clothes in a few years, and she can buy cheap ones when buying vegetables and fruits. Sometimes I even dare not even buy fruits, and only when my children are so hungry will they buy some fruits.
But the money is still not enough, so it’s okay to endure hardships by yourself, and let the child live a life of stinginess with him.
Women live a day of stinging and searching all day. Over time, they will naturally start to complain, complaining that men make less money, complaining that men are incompetent, complaining that men are incompetent, and so on.
Some people may say that since you dislike men so much, then you can make money by yourself! You should know that many families do not have the elderly to help take care of their children. Women need to take care of their children. How can they have time to work?
From pregnancy to having children, from giving birth to children to kindergarten, they will not be able to work for at least four or five years. After finally getting through until the child goes to kindergarten, who would ask for a job? Besides, where can I get off work at 3:00 pm and take over the job?
The old saying goes, "A poor couple is sad for everything." This sentence really makes sense. It is difficult for a couple without money to do everything, and women are more likely to become resentful women.
Because nothing goes well, there are even all kinds of bad things, which are covered by negative energy all day long. In order to release emotions, women can only choose to complain and say their dissatisfaction.
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There is another reason why women are prone to complain after marriage, that is, they are more ambitious. She is never satisfied with her current life. She is obviously very good, but she always keeps her eyes on a better life. If you can't get it, you start to complain that men are not good. It's the man who drags his back.
Such women are often ambitious and have high expectations but low skills. I always hope others will give you what I want, but I never find a way to fight for it myself.
Of course, this kind of woman is a minority. Most women complain after marriage, mainly because men do not recognize her efforts and poverty.
Looking at the marriages around you, you often have good marriages and good family conditions, and you will complain less. At the same time, if both husband and wife have strong abilities, they will complain less. Because both sides are working hard, they are all focused on their work and have no extra energy to complain.
Where housewives, women who revolve around their children and husbands every day, are the main groups of complaints. Because raising children is not easy, and you have nothing to say to your husband every day except for children and gossip.
When men hear too many gossips about parents and families, they will only feel that women have too low vision, and even think that women are not elegant enough, and gradually lose enthusiasm.
Women get angry because the man is silent again and again, complaining that the other party does not understand him and loses enthusiasm for him.
So complaining has something to do with both parties. Women want to complain less after marriage, have their own jobs, and have more hobbies.
