A 58-year-old Ms. Qin is only 1.45 meters tall but weighs 40 kilograms. She is small, exquisite, and beautiful. Her husband, who was 10 years older than her, died of a cerebral hemorrhage fifteen years ago. She had never thought of remarrying. But she started thinking about findi

A 58-year-old Ms. Qin is only 1.45 meters tall but weighs 40 kilograms. She is small, exquisite, and beautiful. Her husband, who was 10 years older than her, died of a cerebral hemorrhage fifteen years ago. She had never thought of remarrying. But she started thinking about finding a wife this year. What caused her thoughts to change? Will her search for a wife go smoothly?

The following is her story :

01

My husband is not very tall either. He is 1.65 meters tall and weighs 120 pounds. He is handsome, has a gentle personality, and is good at cooking. It's our 20th wedding anniversary, and we have never had any conflicts and have lived a very comfortable life. When I get home from get off work at noon, my husband puts steaming, delicious and delicious meals on the table. After lunch, I went to take a nap. At half past one, my husband called me to get up and go to work.

In the evening, after dinner, I sat on the sofa and watched TV, while my husband washed the dishes and tidied the house. At ten o'clock, my husband brought face and foot washing water beside the sofa and asked me to wash my face and feet. At first I was very embarrassed and told him not to serve me. My husband said, I feel comfortable serving you. Slowly, I felt at ease and got used to his service. My husband really treats me as a treasure and has allowed me to enjoy a life like a queen for 20 years. My relatives and friends are extremely envious. Why doesn’t such a good husband live a few more years? I met the King of Hell just after I turned 53. Maybe this is what people say, good people don’t live long, right?

When my son grew up, he went to work in Shanghai and only returned to fuling once a year. For so many years, I stayed alone and lived a lonely life. I had relatives and friends who introduced me to boyfriends, but I rejected them. I am still immersed in the fantasy of my husband's endless love. Really, fantasy is also a kind of happiness. In my dreams, I often walk with my husband in forest parks, bustling streets, and riverside promenades. We held hands, whispered, and enjoyed the sweetness of love.

02

I don’t care when I hear that so many elderly people living alone in the city have died at home and no one knows about it. I didn’t care when I heard that many cases of elderly people living alone and even young people living alone were discovered many days after their deaths in the community where I live. I just treat these as news and topics for chatting. I feel comfortable talking about other people's misfortunes.

Anyway, I am not yet 60 years old. I have thin skin, tender flesh, red hair, and a plump body. In recent years, my weight has increased to 120 pounds. I don’t have any diseases. I eat well and sleep well. I will never fall down living alone. fall.

One afternoon in October last year, when I was about to get off work, my boss was explaining tomorrow's work to me in the office. Suddenly, with a bang, the rolling shutter door of the workshop was hit by a heavy object and made a loud noise.

Then the boss received a call: "Come and pull me out, I slipped at the door of the workshop." The boss immediately ran to the workshop, and his wife fell beside the rolling shutter door, her voice slurred. The 43-year-old landlady suddenly suffered a cerebral infarction. Fortunately, her husband was not far away. He rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment after hearing the call. Otherwise, the consequences would have been unpredictable. The landlady is more than 10 years younger than me, and she actually has a cerebral infarction. This moment made me completely sober: I might also have a cerebral infarction, but who would take me to the hospital if I had a cerebral infarction?

03

A widow who is nearly 60 years old and lives alone has a son thousands of miles away. Isn’t it just waiting to die? My heart suddenly became tense. No, I must find another man and let him accompany me every day. So, I went to dating agency to register, and also asked my old classmates to find a suitable partner for me.

The condition I put forward is that you must love me, pamper me, and serve me like your first wife. My first boyfriend was personable and well-spoken, and I was very satisfied. Asked him: "Can you cook for me?" He said: "Yes, anyway, my wife has been dead for seven or eight years. I live alone and have to cook for myself every day. Can I cook for you?" Just add 2 meters more? "

Well, this man meets my requirements, I am secretly happy. However, one day, two days, one month, two months, nothing more happened. Later, I heard someone say that he had married a village woman whose husband had died. This village woman was very diligent and cooked, washed, and cleaned for him every day. The couple loved each other very much.

Someone introduced me to a second boyfriend. I asked: "I can't do housework, can you?" Answer: "Doing housework is not high-tech. I will take care of the housework in the future. You can just play with me." "I am once again grateful that I have found a good man to serve me. However, this man never appeared in my sight again and disappeared from the world.

04

After that, dating agencies or old classmates introduced me to more than 20 boyfriends one after another. At first, they all promised to take care of me, cook, wash and do housework for me, but nothing happened after the first meeting. These men are duplicitous and it breaks my heart.

Cousin woke up the dreamer with words: "Silly girl, you are so short, your salary is more than 2,000, and there is nothing particularly outstanding. Is it possible to find a man to serve you? Your brother-in-law is dead, and you want to find another one?" I'm afraid a man who loves you like him will have to wait for the next life. "It seems that I have to re-adjust my thinking. If I can't find a man to serve me, I will find a man to serve him and turn the queen I was into what I am today. Maid, that's okay, right?

Editor's Note: Ms. Qin wants to find someone with good conditions in all aspects, and she also requires him to pamper her like her ex-husband and be a free nanny. But such a good man may be looking for a free nanny to take care of herself. ! If you want to find someone willing to take care of her at this age, you may have to find a man with poor conditions.

Author: Qingquan

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