Text/Time is over and I have made all my wishes in front of the pillow. Let’s wait until the green mountains are rotten. The scale floats on the water surface and wait until the Yellow River is completely dry. The sun is ginseng and the North Dipper returns to the south. I can't

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in front of the pillow, and let the green mountains fall. The scale floats on the water surface and wait until Yellow River is completely dry. The sun is ginseng and the North Dipper returns to the south. I can't stop after I'm resting, and I'll wait until the third update to see the sun.

Everyone hopes that their feelings can last forever, and can be seen with someone for thousands of years, from the love they first met to the old age.

But how to determine if the other person is that person?

In fact, whether two people are suitable and whether they can reach the end is actually destined from the beginning.

From the two people's living habits, hobbies, life goals, etc., you can predict their future.

But sometimes because of that little bit of emotional bond, I thought love could withstand everything, but in the end I realized that it was still unbearable to reality.

Instead of leaving after being injured, it is better to stop the loss in time when you find that each other is not suitable for you at the beginning.

Things like love have always been more choice than effort.

What kind of person you choose means what kind of life you have to accept.

So, try to choose the person who can go to the end with you and bring you a sense of happiness, so that your marriage will be much easier.

Someone will definitely ask: How do I know if he is the right person?

The story of three women tells you: Can you share the same old age? From the moment you meet, you are destined.

Li Yanlin, 27 years old, copywriting planning: If, when we meet, there is someone in his heart who can't let go, then you will definitely not be able to make the last one.

Once you find that two people are not suitable, don’t take it as luck, think you can change for each other, and don’t delay it because you are reluctant to give up.

Ex-boyfriend and I are from the same university. When I participated in a singing competition, I fell in love with him at a glance and asked for his WeChat. After

, I often send him messages on WeChat to show his presence and ask him to go out with my roommate.

At the beginning, I was always taking the initiative. He was really dull and shy, so I was very outgoing and cheerful.

After a period of time of getting along, I felt more and more that he was the person I wanted to find, and then confessed to him.

But he didn't reply to me directly, and he was a little hesitant, and I thought it was because he was too shy.

After about a week, he suddenly agreed to be with me. I was happy for a long time and felt that my efforts were responding.

After we fell in love with me, he was always listless when we went out to date and didn't feel particularly interested. I thought he didn't like playing those projects.

So, I asked him for his opinion and asked him what he wanted to play, but he said it was casual.

I always feel that there is a gap between him and me, but I can't believe it, and I have been numbing myself.

Once, I heard from his roommate that he had an unforgettable ex-girlfriend who was injured and was distracted from falling in love.

I don’t want to believe this is true. I think it’s a rumor and dare not think about it in that direction.

It was not until my ex-girlfriend asked him to get back together and he confessed to me that I accepted that all this was true.

Ma Jiayun, 29 years old, company employee: Nowadays, this society also emphasizes equality. If the family conditions are too different, it will be difficult to get together.

Looking back now, I was still too stupid at the beginning, wishful thinking that as long as there is love, there will be results.

I have been in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend for more than three years and are about to get married, but I still can't overcome the gap.

My boyfriend took me home to meet his parents. I bought a large box of fruits at a fruit store outside the community, and the ones I chose were relatively expensive.

I'm afraid it would be too rude to go empty-handed. After all, it's the first time I've seen you, and the etiquette must be in place.

When I entered the community, I was a little frightened. The decoration of his community looked solemn, which was beyond the reach of people from my small city.

The boyfriend greeted his parents in advance, but when we arrived, his mother sat on the sofa and said hello to me symbolically, while his father didn't come out in the room at all.

I called aunt very politely and then took the fruit to the coffee table, but she didn't even look at it.

The whole lunch process was not a few words, and the atmosphere was particularly awkward.

After leaving his house, I knew that his parents were not satisfied with me and looked down on me from a small city.

About half a year later, my boyfriend was moved by his parents and was with his friend and daughter in the business world. Naturally, I became the abandoned one.

You see, two people with too big family conditions should not try to be together, the gap cannot be changed.

Wang Rongrong, 26 years old, art teacher: If the personality differences between the two people are too big, it will be really painful to be together. At the beginning, we can tolerate each other because of love, but we torture each other over time.

I like the quiet atmosphere very much, while my boyfriend has a personality that cannot be idle and likes to play outside very much.

For weekends, I would rather set up a painting board on the balcony to paint the scenery outside the window.

. My boyfriend likes to go out with friends to drink and dance, and I don’t adapt to that kind of place.

When he asked me to accompany him, on the one hand, I felt that I had to compromise, and on the other hand, I felt that I could not go against my wishes, which was easy to cause conflicts.

Over time, he defined me as "boring" and "refrain", and thought I was particularly boring and had no interest.

It was of course very sad to hear these comments, but when I think about being together for so long, I still feel reluctant to part ways.

I have thought about changing. I have accompanied him to the bar several times, but every time I was so embarrassed that I was at a loss. He was like a fish in water. He couldn't find anyone after entering the bar, so I was left alone in my seat.

After a few times, I never wanted to go again. I thought it was boring, and he thought I was not interested.

So, we kept wasting our lives like this, unable to enter each other's lives, but we could not completely get rid of it.

Now, our state of getting along is to look at each other speechlessly, and even if we sit together, we have nothing to say. I actually know in my heart that we cannot go long, but we just lack an explosion point.

Time Emotional Class:

Many people talk about "true love" and "always together". But if you really want to talk about it, no matter how nice it sounds, it is just a temporary happiness.

In fact, whether two people can reach the end and achieve the right result is destined from the beginning.

The two people with a huge difference in temperament and family conditions are too different, no matter how they get along, the gap will always exist.

Unless the partner is willing to compromise and change unconditionally for you, it is difficult to get to the end.

However, everyone is an independent individual and has their own emotional needs. How can they always be accommodated and retreat?

If two people in their relationship cannot tolerate each other and make progress together, they are destined to completely part ways on a very peaceful day.