Because a cheating man does not want to take responsibility for the cheating, he will blame the original wife. The reason why the original wife is not as good as the mistress in all aspects is that the original wife is not good enough that the man cheats.

Many original wives will be brainwashed by cheating men after they find that their husbands are cheating.

Because a cheating man does not want to take responsibility for the cheating, he will blame the original wife.

says that the original wife is not as good as the mistress in all aspects. It is because the original wife is not good enough that the man cheats.

cheating is not a man’s problem, but rather the original wife’s fault.

There are many original partners who do start to doubt themselves because of cheating on a man and feel that they are not as good as mistresses.

Scarlett wrote this article to allow the original wife to analyze the situation rationally and clearly after being cheated.

After a man cheats, he often says these words to his original wife in order to blame him. The original wife may not necessarily not listen to it!

The first sentence: You are not as good as a mistress, so I will cheat on a mistress.

Abuse, a man who cheats on him, and his favorite thing to do is to praise his mistress and stumble on his original wife.

keeps talking about how good the mistress is and how bad the original wife is. The original wife is not as good as the mistress, so he will cheat.

shifted the responsibility for cheating to the original wife and relieved her own guilt.

makes the original wife self-doubt, and even makes the original wife blame herself.

The original wife really thinks that a man cheats on her is not good enough, so she will fall into two difficulties.

One is to win back the cheating man, constantly seeking forgiveness in humbly, and even learn from the mistress to change himself and cater to the cheating man.

Another option is to choose to tolerate the existence of mistresses and dare not care about cheating with a man who cheats.

Worrying that a man will abandon his or her children for the sake of the "better" mistress.

No matter which type it is, the one who benefits in the end is the cheating man, which is also the purpose of cheating man.

So how did the original wife break the lie the cheating man said.

You can ask the man who cheats. If you meet a man who is better than him, can you cheat.

If a man who cheated on him said that he could not do it, then if his brainwashed his original wife's blame would be exposed.

If the cheating man says yes, the original wife will create this situation.

Let a man who is better than a cheating man appear around you, and slap the cheating man in the face.

The reason why a cheating man brainwashs his original wife is because he doesn't want to divorce.

is to proofread the original wife, so that the original wife will not tolerate him cheating on her.

If the original wife wants to make the cheating man admit his mistake, she must do the opposite.

The second sentence: I will cheat if I am not satisfied in my marriage.

Many men will not directly accuse the original wife of being inferior to the mistress, and will indirectly make the original wife feel that she is inferior to the mistress.

is telling the original wife that she was unhappy in the marriage and that the original wife did not fulfill her wife’s accusations.

Affairing man does not say he cheats, but says he is with the mistress in pursuit of happiness.

The mistress does not intervene in other people's marriage, but appears to give the cheating man happiness.

In this way, it whitewas the behavior of being a third party and also whitewas the mistress.

indirectly threw all the problems to the original wife, asking the original wife to take responsibility.

The reality is that even if the marriage is happy, men will still cheat.

In order to cheat, they can find ways to find unhappy points in their originally happy marriage.

So wives, a man cheating is the problem of this man.

Don’t doubt yourself because of men’s words, no matter how good you are or how happy your marriage is.

How much you love cheating men, take care of your partner more, what a good wife you are,

can't stop the cheating men from finding you wrong, and you can't avoid cheating men and blame you for giving the blame.

So compared to men who are confused about cheating, it is better to think about how to resolve an extramarital affair.

The mistress gave the cheating man happiness, so let the cheating man divorce and live a happy life with the mistress.

The man who cheated is absolutely unwilling to do so because the mistress is not that good at all.

The third sentence: As long as you change yourself, I can return to my family.

Many cheating men will use this method to constantly suppress their original wife.

The original wives thought that as long as they change according to what the cheating man wanted, they could save their marriage.

The result will definitely disappoint the original wives, because the cheating man only needs to not want to return to his family.

They can find a thousand kinds, ten thousand reasons to be dissatisfied with the changes of the original wife.

constantly asks the original wife to change, and then enjoys the extramarital affair while watching the original wife's favor.

The original wife remembers one sentence: a man cheats, and the one who should make changes is to cheat on the man.

Whether it is internal marriage problems or the temptation of mistresses, they are not the main cause of cheating.

The real reason for cheating is that there is something wrong with the nature of a cheating man.

He is selfish and only wants to enjoy himself. He is greedy and wants more women.

He is irresponsible, so he will betray his marriage and his wife. It is his fault to cheat.

should make changes, and the person responsible for cheating is also the cheating man.

instead of the original wife, remember this and don’t be brainwashed by cheating men.

Only by correcting your attitude and using the right method can you resolve extramarital affair.

Finally, Scarlett wanted to say that no one is perfect, and the original wife must be not perfect.

does have mistresses that are better than the original wife in some aspects, and the original wife does have some things that cannot satisfy the cheating man.

But even if these are true, can they become reasons for men to cheat?

When men use these as reasons for cheating, they should also look at themselves.

Do you have any shortcomings? Are you sure you meet all the needs of your partner in your marriage?

What marriage requires is tolerance and mutual accommodation, and there will always be dissatisfaction with each other.

communicate more and solve problems together instead of finding excuses to cheat. This is how couples get along.

If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow Scarlett and send a private message to talk about your situation.

I am Yin Sijia, your exclusive emotional analyst, analyze emotional problems and analyze various marriages.