As the eldest in the family, Dahu also has a younger brother under him. In this family, Dahu did not enjoy the slightest love of his parents, and his parents gave all their love to his younger brother.
In Dahu's life, his parents have always been partial to his younger brother. He went to a key university and had a good job, but his parents still did. There was no reason, and he had only his younger son in his eyes. Dahu remembered that when he paid his salary in the first month, his father called him and asked him to send half of his salary back. The money sent back was later mentioned by my younger brother accidentally, and my parents used it for his younger brother. But at that time, he could not ignore his parents, so he could only send money to his parents.
Dahu's parents grasped this point, and they would call him whenever they lack money, and they should be confident in asking for money. It seemed that Dahu owed his family money, but his younger brother just sat down to enjoy the money. Dahu has become accustomed to his parents' bias. He has never stopped giving money to his family since he started working, and something happened after she got married that completely disappointed him with his parents. At that time, Dahu had just been married for half a year, and he and his wife were still trying to save money to buy a house. In his hometown, his parents' home were divided into two houses due to demolition. Originally, Dahu hoped that his parents could share the same house with the couple. In this way, they could also relieve the pressure, but their parents hid it from him. After the house was in place, they transferred both houses to his younger brother.
It was still my brother who let me know that the house had been given to my brother by my father. He went back to his hometown to ask his father why he did this, but his father said that you are better than your younger brother, so it will be a matter of time before buying a house. But your younger brother has just been to junior high school and has low cultural knowledge and is not given to him. It will be difficult for him to buy a house in his entire life. His father's words made Dahu feel cold. This was obviously an open and upright bias and did not consider him at all. He didn't say anything else, turned around and left his parents' house, and he rarely went back to his parents' house since then. During the holidays, I just give my parents some money and never go back.
Dahu His wife is the only daughter, and her parents-in-law loves this daughter very much. Seeing that her daughter worked hard to buy a house, they took out their savings and paid a down payment for them. They pay their mortgage every month. If Dahu and his wife buy a house by themselves, it is their parents-in-law who let them own their own house in advance.
Dahu was very grateful to his father-in-law and mother-in-law. Shortly after they moved into their new home, his wife became pregnant. Dahu still called his parents and hoped that his mother would help take care of his wife. The mother directly refused on the grounds of taking care of his younger brother's children. Dahu did not mention it again. His wife was taken care of by his mother-in-law during confinement. Dahu realized the kind of love he had always longed for from his parents-in-law, which was not in his parents, because his parents gave all the love to his younger brother.
Dahu also vowed to be filial to his parents-in-law, and the couple's life will be better and better. Just two years after they bought a new house, their parents sent 30,000 yuan. This is the second time Dahu meets his parents two years later. In just two years, he sees his parents become much more haggard. As soon as he entered the door, he cried to him about his sister-in-law being arrogant and domineering, and was not filial to them, and now he drove them out. His father said, "We were sorry for you at the beginning, and we knew we were wrong. I took 30,000 yuan to compensate you this time, and I hope you can take us in and provide us with care for our elderly." However, Dahu was not soft-hearted at this moment because he knew that his parents' savings over the years were 200,000 yuan, and his parents gave his brother a long time ago but gave him 30,000 yuan to compensate him.
Dahu still cannot forgive his parents' partiality, and his parents still think that Dahu will obey their words as before. Since his parents gave the two houses to his younger brother, Dahu was disappointed. He did not accept the money given by his parents and said, "My parents, you said you were counting on your younger brother for retirement, and you gave all your property to your younger brother. You should go find him, and you have to support my father-in-law and mother-in-law here." After saying that, he gave his parents another 50,000 yuan.
from then on. When his parents left, they cursed Dahu, saying that he was an ungrateful and unfilial son. He was used to the scolding of his parents, but he was still very sad inside.They are also their parents' own son, but their younger brother is favored, but Dahu is neglected and exploited. Friends, do you agree with Dahu’s approach?
